oh boy....what would YOU do??
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oh boy....what would YOU do??
I have had a great couple of dates here in the last couple of weeks....what's so weird about that? Well TWO things....the girls!
1. She is a young, very attractive 22 Law School student. I am 28 so there is a bit of an age difference but I don't think that has been an issue for either of us. I still can't find anything wrong....she shares a lot of my interests and she is just plain fun and "perky"...lots of energy: we both work out at the same gym....(oooooh her butt!!!
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2. The second girl is a girl I had asked out twice before and I got turned down
but then she just called me up out of the blues and asked if we could get together....whA?? I decided to go out with her and the date went VERY well.....Here is the catch...she is a little bit older than me.....37....but she certainly does not look any older than 30/31. She is a vet at a local clinic and not quite as "perky" but she certainly has a head over her shoulders and is a lot mature and "sophisticated"......
WTF is wrong with me? Why can't I find women my own age....I feel like I am going out with the vet's daughter and then with her mom??!!
I know I can't keep going out with both of them but I would like to get to know both a little better...I just don't want them to think I am out to play them out.....argh!!! This kind of sucks but at the same time is kind of cool....??!!
1. She is a young, very attractive 22 Law School student. I am 28 so there is a bit of an age difference but I don't think that has been an issue for either of us. I still can't find anything wrong....she shares a lot of my interests and she is just plain fun and "perky"...lots of energy: we both work out at the same gym....(oooooh her butt!!!
)2. The second girl is a girl I had asked out twice before and I got turned down
but then she just called me up out of the blues and asked if we could get together....whA?? I decided to go out with her and the date went VERY well.....Here is the catch...she is a little bit older than me.....37....but she certainly does not look any older than 30/31. She is a vet at a local clinic and not quite as "perky" but she certainly has a head over her shoulders and is a lot mature and "sophisticated"......WTF is wrong with me? Why can't I find women my own age....I feel like I am going out with the vet's daughter and then with her mom??!!
I know I can't keep going out with both of them but I would like to get to know both a little better...I just don't want them to think I am out to play them out.....argh!!! This kind of sucks but at the same time is kind of cool....??!!
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Choosing between two girls is hard when their situations are so drastically different. If they're both local, then just go with the one you're more compatible with. Think long-term. My gut says to pick girl #1, the younger perky one. Just make sure she is mature enough, first.
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Tough chioce indeed. hmmmmmm, the best I could do is suggest you go out with the older one and give me the number of the younger one
Actualy I think Steve has the right idea. Remeber, this is one of those GOOD problems to have!
Actualy I think Steve has the right idea. Remeber, this is one of those GOOD problems to have!
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wellllll-i say have them both over and everyone will be satisfied! j/k
it depends on what YOU want and what YOU are ready for?!? Then it all depends on what #1 and #2 wants--
which one are you more attracted to--which one do you think about more--which one do you think you can wake up to in the morning?--put aside the age--i seem to get stuck with all the
18-20 yrs olds--and i'm not complaining! lol but anyways--have phone conversations with each one of them at different times of day--sometimes people will open up and start to let you get to know them but you just have to catch them at the right time!
good luck!! i'm winking for you!
it depends on what YOU want and what YOU are ready for?!? Then it all depends on what #1 and #2 wants--
which one are you more attracted to--which one do you think about more--which one do you think you can wake up to in the morning?--put aside the age--i seem to get stuck with all the
18-20 yrs olds--and i'm not complaining! lol but anyways--have phone conversations with each one of them at different times of day--sometimes people will open up and start to let you get to know them but you just have to catch them at the right time!
good luck!! i'm winking for you!
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The younger girl may be genuinely interested in you, whereas the older lady may be looking for a fling, remember...she turned you down before. Gotta be careful with girls pushin' 40, they act weird because they are truly scared their youth is all but gone.
Go with the younger girl, I could even read the enthusiasm in your post talking about her. DO NOT DO BOTH, you'll screw both of them up. Be a man, make a choice. Door #1.
Go with the younger girl, I could even read the enthusiasm in your post talking about her. DO NOT DO BOTH, you'll screw both of them up. Be a man, make a choice. Door #1.
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thanks for the feeback everyone....I have decided to go out with each of them one more time.
The "vet" is pretty hot too and I guess works out at her "gym" in her house....how much do "vets" make...damn!
Hopefully I can find out some faults on the second date and make a more intelligent decision....and the "vet" has a butt too!! 
The "vet" is pretty hot too and I guess works out at her "gym" in her house....how much do "vets" make...damn!
Hopefully I can find out some faults on the second date and make a more intelligent decision....and the "vet" has a butt too!!