So my eldest comes down mumbling something about facebook and #2 son being engaged

#2 is 19 and a freshman so the +1 was a little

so yeah he and his girlfriend are engaged but they plan on getting through school and doing his co-op and so forth and so on.
So I'm thinking I don't need to order that suit just yet.

As I think back on it, the wife and I more or less planned it during her freshman year but waited 'til she finished 3 1/2 years later.

 

If they are really smart, if possible, they let the parents pay for their education and keep the roofs over their heads for the next 3 1/2+ years, THEN they get hitched, no need to rush.

We've got a wedding in NY for my nephew in June. He's finished school, she's getting her master's. He has a gazillion $ in student loans and two part time jobs...not exactly the best way to start out.

Kids.....