Hey guys i am having a hard time right now...Me and my fiance ended today..Been together a little over 5 yrs..So its pretty rough right now..I am so lost without her..Its so hard to try to not think about her and i cant get my emotions right i dunno if i wanna cry or just kill someone..She says she wants to be on her own for awhile and that she didn't like how her life was "planned" out..She wants to be able to make decisions on her own..But when you are going to marry someone your 1..You both have to make the decisions together..She says she still "loves" me but i asked her if she says she loves me as much as she says she does why do this?? She had nothing to say to that..Help me out guys..

 

Just keep your head up high man. If she comes back she comes back. Let her see what its like on her own and doing her own things. She may come back because she cant do it. Or she made a mistake by doing it. Don't drown yourself in self pity. This was her idea and decision. I would say to just take it day by day and move on with your goals and dreams. You don't want to just sit and wait if she doesn't come back. Don't do anything stupid. Life isn't worth taking over a girl. There's 3 billion of them in the world.

 

girls are girls man. they change there minds so much and never know what they truly want! Keep that head held high and just stay around friends! Friends are the best medicine.

 

meet up with us saturday man!!! it could be good for you!!! what are you doing friday also?

 

Use this situation to improve upon yourself. This sounds crazy but after my last engagement I told myself I would get back in shape. Since then I've run 4 miles a day, cut out sodas, and taught myself how to eat healthy. I've lost 45 lbs since then. I feel better than ever. I can now honestly say im glad it happened. You never know what's around the corner for you! Keep your head high and your friends close!

 

Damnnnnnnn i can only imagine you 45lbs heavier. Ha!

 

I was also in a 5+ year relationship. I wouldn't trade it for the world. I learned alot from that relationship. Everyone has their downfalls. Trust me, life goes on. Hit me up if you want to talk. S2ki is always here!

 

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Hope you're feeling a little better today! Best piece of advice I can give you is stay busy - plan a million things to do so you're out an about and surrounded by people that make you happy. Real friends should know that this is the time you need them most so don't feel like you are overwhelming people with a need to hang out or do things you don't normally do.

Might I suggest getting a few Shreveport s2k's together this Saturday and joining in on the tune day at Polk Performance? There's nothing like a cruise to put your mind at ease! Hang in there!