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Old Nov 25, 2009 | 07:35 AM
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hey guys,

as several of you know, my wife and I have been expecting our first child any day. That day came, starting Monday morning at about 2 am and baby Caleb was born at 4:26 pm on Monday.

Everything was fine through labor, but the doctor could not get Caleb out the "normal" way and the baby went through a lot of stress. He was turned to the side and was much larger than they originally thought (almost 8 lbs). His heart rate slowed dramatically and they rushed my wife off for an emergency c-section. This was like a movie to me, it seemed so unreal. the nurses literaly ran to the OR with my wife, and me running closely behind. I had to stop to put the full suit, bootys and mask with face guard on before i could enter.

Once I got in, there were about 15 people frantically working to get my son out. It got very bad. Probably the worst experience of my life, and i was in the hospital for 16 days with bowel surgery. He was halfway down the birth cannal which made it a very violent procedure to get him out. Then.... his heart stopped, they got him out and started CPR on him and his heart started back up after being stopped for 1 1/2 minutes.

There has been a lot of things happen since then, but to make this already long story a little shorter, he is in intensive care, but stable. he is on a ventilator and we have not been able to hold him. He may have some brain damage, but they think it is mild. He will be in the NICU for about another week.

My wife is healing fine, but it is a difficult situation.

I am asking everyone that I know to pray for us if you feel comfortable doing so.

Thanks a lot guys.

Rich
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Old Nov 25, 2009 | 07:47 AM
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Hi Rich

As I recently became the first time father myself. I deeply feel for you. I just want to say that our prayer are with you. Let me know if there's anything else that I can to help.

God bless.

Johnny
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Old Nov 25, 2009 | 08:27 AM
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Prayers are with you. I hope everything turns out for the best.
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Old Nov 25, 2009 | 08:33 AM
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You have our prayers and wishes for a full recovery.
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Old Nov 25, 2009 | 08:56 AM
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Good Luck Rich, stay strong my man. God will sort things out.

Oh and if you need ANYTHING, please let us know. PM me or call me, 910-8one8-6one87
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Old Nov 25, 2009 | 09:14 AM
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My prayers to you and your family Rich. Be strong through this ordeal.
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Old Nov 25, 2009 | 09:50 AM
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My prayers are with you and your family. Keep your chin up. The Lord is with you.
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Old Nov 25, 2009 | 10:28 AM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Rich
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Old Nov 25, 2009 | 10:34 AM
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my prayers go out to you and your family
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Old Nov 25, 2009 | 10:52 AM
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my mom always told me '' God never puts u in a stiuation that u cant handle.'' u and ur family are in my prayers...hold ur head up and God Bless
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