ATTN: ALL WHORES
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ATTN: ALL WHORES
ok, so J and i have been going through a rough spot lately... things have been tense and he's been out of town a heckuva lot which only makes things worse... so we got to talking on monday night and apparently he feels that i don't put enough effort into the relationship (for ex. he feels that he always has to put hte effort into making things fun, and if he doesn' tsmile, then i don't smile [which is kinda true], so anyways, he wants me to start putting more effort).. he's under a lot of stress with family (he's the oldest and most responsible for everything), work, etc... so i was thinking of this:
we're hanging out on Sunday after Church. I am making a Photo Box for him of our best pics together from all our happy memories, i'm making a lil mock calendar of all of our important dates, e.g. first date (3.5 years ago), first kiss, first night together (no sex, just cuddling
), first weekend away together, first valentine's day (the night he says he "fell over the edge for me" ), first time we exchanged "i love you", etc.. you get the picture..
then, sinc ei keep all our movie, football game, baseball game, concert ticket stubs, i was gonna scan them all and print out copies for him to put in the box... i was also gonna make a CD of all the best songs from all the concerts we've been to (we've been to a lot, i could prolly make a double CD! btu i won't
)
finally, i wrote a poem for him (i haven't written poetry since high school).
so i was gonna plan a lil surprise trip on sunday to a winery we haven't been to (hard to believe there are any left in the area that we haven't been to!
) and preparing a lil picnic, then giving him our "Happy Memory Box" so each time things are NOT going so well for us, we can look at our past and remember how good things can be as an inspiration....
what do you guys think?
we're hanging out on Sunday after Church. I am making a Photo Box for him of our best pics together from all our happy memories, i'm making a lil mock calendar of all of our important dates, e.g. first date (3.5 years ago), first kiss, first night together (no sex, just cuddling
), first weekend away together, first valentine's day (the night he says he "fell over the edge for me" ), first time we exchanged "i love you", etc.. you get the picture..then, sinc ei keep all our movie, football game, baseball game, concert ticket stubs, i was gonna scan them all and print out copies for him to put in the box... i was also gonna make a CD of all the best songs from all the concerts we've been to (we've been to a lot, i could prolly make a double CD! btu i won't
)finally, i wrote a poem for him (i haven't written poetry since high school).
so i was gonna plan a lil surprise trip on sunday to a winery we haven't been to (hard to believe there are any left in the area that we haven't been to!
) and preparing a lil picnic, then giving him our "Happy Memory Box" so each time things are NOT going so well for us, we can look at our past and remember how good things can be as an inspiration....what do you guys think?
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Originally Posted by beanolo,Nov 23 2005, 12:59 PM
I think thats a great idea 
Sounds like a great plan, RC....he HAS to be impressed with all that effort.
If I may be so bold: the main thing is to keep the efforts going (albeit on a lesser scale
) from now on, so the trouble doesn't arise again 
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Originally Posted by Nicotunes,Nov 23 2005, 04:28 PM
Sounds like a great plan, RC....he HAS to be impressed with all that effort.
If I may be so bold: the main thing is to keep the efforts going (albeit on a lesser scale
) from now on, so the trouble doesn't arise again RC no-one has more faith and devotion than you! You just need to channel some of that energy into the relationship in a positive manner.
