*sigh*

 

 

:hug:

 

Hey, i'm 23 and thought that i found the person i was going to be with, but he turned out to be a HUGE wimp and got out of the relationship because he was scared. don't look at things as being a road block, look at them as opportunities for better things. Whether i meet the guy i'm going to marry tomorrow or 3 years from now, there's no way i'm getting married before i'm 29-30. i want to become established in life and do as much as i can as a single female Look at it this way - i'd rather be happy and single, then in a relationship and miserable, so just because you have someone isn't necessarily a good thing.

 

Well, to my 20-something chicas out there who are whining, CALM DOWN! You have plenty of time. Enjoy yourselves!!!! With regard to family, you should only really start to be concerned in your mid-30's.

That's my opinion.

 

mid-30's ok that's like an old maid.. sorry... i wanna get married by 24 and start having kids by 28. just my personal preference though...

 

[QUOTE=ZGiRL,Jul 26 2004, 04:07 PM] Hey, i'm 23 and thought that i found the person i was going to be with, but he turned out to be a HUGE wimp and got out of the relationship because he was scared. don't look at things as being a road block, look at them as opportunities for better things. Whether i meet the guy i'm going to marry tomorrow or 3 years from now, there's no way i'm getting married before i'm 29-30. i want to become established in life and do as much as i can as a single female

 

Why the rush? Just curious. It seems to me that marriage is something that is for the long haul and, if you want to find someone that will be the best match, sometimes that takes time.

If you were terminally ill and only had a few years to live and wanted to accomplish all your lifes goals in the short time you have left then I could see pushing yourself, but it's been my experience that there are some things you simply can't schedule...and falling in love is one of them.

I know more people that married really young and regretted it than the other way around. And, to add to that fact, the vast majority of them are still married and have no plans to split up...they just wish they'd waited a bit longer to take such a big step.

That said, everyone marches to the beat of a different drummer and I wish you the best of luck finding someone that makes you as happy as you deserve.

 

That is a good point you have raised there Jack .....