So basically my boyfriend and I are on the rocks rt now. JUst when we realize that us getting together wasnt a flash-in-the-pan thing and that we really do love each other, shit hits the fan Tonight I want to take care of him and make him believe, or at least start to believe I do appreciate him.

Im already making his fave dinner of sirloin steak and french fries...what else should I do? I need real advice guys, slight seriousness....

Please help a in need!!!

 

The homemade dinner is a great start! Don't forget the candles, music etc. TAKE THE PHONE OFF THE HOOK & TURN OFF THE CELLPHONES!

(but don't forget to leave the 'puter on and give the 's a running commentery )

Without knowing what "shit" hit the fan-this your night to tell him exactly how you feel. Don't hold back. If you feel that this guy is the one for you-let him know that.

If he is as special as you told us, you need to tell him that.

Make a homemade card for him. Put on your best & sexiest black dress.

 

You should just tell him how you fell. Your words nothing more, nothing less.

That should do it. The dinner of course is very nice to give extra hints But it should be enough for him if you tell him.

And for the future you should just stop doing whatever made things bad for you in the past.

That's about the best "advice" I could give.

Hope everything works out for you

Lemme know how it went

 

rub his feet, then lick his ears

dinner's a damn good start, men think with their stomachs first, then their trousers....

 

Dave you are so on point. I was talking to my aunt today about the situation and she told me I need to just tell him how I feel about him. I love him and I just have to tell him flat out. Ive only told 1 person in my life I loved him and he said it to me first, so this is gonna be a first. You are right tho. I love him and instead of hiding behind my pride Im gonna tell him.

 

I didnt cheat, I vented and I said some really mean stuff. I was just angry, but he found out and my words really hurt him. Plus, it was his friend who told him and before he told him, he told all his friends so my poor baby's pride was hurt bad. I didnt mean what I said. I was just mad.

But you too, V, are right. He needs to know what he means to me and even if hes still down, at least itll all be out in the open.

and yes, Ill definitely let you know how it went

 

And don't be afraid to say it or what his reaction may or may not be. If you don't say it, you will regret it later on.

I've been there, done that and there are times still that I kick myself in the ass for not saying how I felt.

But last June-alot of things changed for me for the better.

 

you fell in love?

 

thank God he has nice feet

 

I didn't say "lick his feet"......