But if the guy is really interested, why do you have to go and make the first move? I think he should think "whoo what a hot girl, I can't let HER get away"

But maybe I'm still just a hopeless romantic - ya know, the bringflowers-takedancing-knockonthewindowinthemiddelofthenight-romantic. Yeah, that's what I like

 

And then face the emabarassment of slinking back to your friends after she shoots you down.

Sorry, not to eager to experience that.

 

Most men are just too intimidated hun

 

Intimidation is a mindset...my favorite cheesy pick up line always was ...Hi..what's your name! said with a big smile...I always got an answer... sometimes a laugh...but at least she remembered me

 

 

OMG, superbabe, don't get me started.

First and Foremost . . . . . . .because women don't want this stuff. They don't want to be treated well. They don't want doors opened for them. Sweet cards or notes, etc. Remember one of my initial statements. Some of the hottest women are with guys that treat them like $h!T!!

Women don't want to be treated like a princess . . . .

but boys (with the right influence) grow up being taught that you should respect women. When you find the right one . . . . be her knight in shining armor. So now you have to unlearn this behavior so that and be a jerk to have a chance at getting a date with an attractive girl.


Don't ask me . . . I will never figure it out.

 

I definitely agree that nice guys finish dead last....but I don't think all women want someone who treats them like crap. I just think that some women...when they know they have their hooks in you...take advantage of it like crazy.

 

I do that kinda stuff, but only after the dating starts. I basically become a bumbling fool if I try to talk to a girl I have never met before. Which Jimmy labeled the Goofy complex.

For me it's so weird. I can talk to anyone anytime except when I realize I'm attracted to the girl and even then it's only the initial meeting that's the problem for me. If I'm introduced it's not an issue....or if the situation just happens like standing in line and you just start talking. It's the walking up to a complete stranger that gets me. In fact most people who know me don't believe it when I tell them I can't meet women cause they know how outgoing I am the other 99% of the time. Just ask Westside...he got to see it first hand and he didn't believe it either.

 

My theory on life is that life is a series of corners.

 

And you try to grab as many of them as you can.