Right Now Part VII
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Originally Posted by shareall,Jul 25 2005, 09:40 PM
Right now define "committment problem"? I'm guessing this means she's afraid of being burned? That's a tough one. 
If she knows how you feel about her, I think at some point you have to protect yourself too - I mean if she's not willing to commit, then why should you let yourself become too involved?
If she knows how you feel about her, I think at some point you have to protect yourself too - I mean if she's not willing to commit, then why should you let yourself become too involved?
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Originally Posted by AP1Sean,Jul 25 2005, 08:20 PM
Right now its whether or not to keep dating this girl...she tells me she has a comitment problem... Cher help me out!
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Originally Posted by AP1Sean,Jul 25 2005, 11:43 PM
Right now, she says that she has a problem being faithful...is there a way to change this in a girl or is it fighting for a lost cause?
I truly believe that if you go into a relationship wanting to make changes in the other person you will be sorely disappointed.
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Originally Posted by bahula03,Jul 25 2005, 09:57 PM
right now, what type of commitment problem? Either she has a lack of trust in you (you meaning you or guys in general) or she lacks trust in herself (ie she may break the commitment and she knows it). Any guess as to which one it is?
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answered my question before I asked it. IMO, if she thinks it's even a remote possibility with you, walk away. I can't think of good way to try and make it work...she has to do that on her own, and I doubt that you're going to volunteer for the kind of hurtin' something like that would deal out. This is all assuming you're in it for the whole relationship...
answered my question before I asked it. IMO, if she thinks it's even a remote possibility with you, walk away. I can't think of good way to try and make it work...she has to do that on her own, and I doubt that you're going to volunteer for the kind of hurtin' something like that would deal out. This is all assuming you're in it for the whole relationship...
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Originally Posted by shareall,Jul 25 2005, 08:58 PM
...I truly believe that if you go into a relationship wanting to make changes in the other person you will be sorely disappointed.
I'm not a big fan of making "rules" for this kind of stuff, but that's very true. People don't change because people want them to, they change because they want to.
