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From: SJC
Right now, what Unkie Trunkie imparted on the original thread:
Originally Posted by Unkie Trunkie
FFS, nobody pages me in on these things until it's too late.
1. WSB is right. He had a window. He should've closed within 3 meetings, and then either kept her, or kicked her to the curb.
2. It wouldn't be a problem if your guy friends would simply maintain a "Bros-B4-Hoes" rule. Many girls are too competitive and catty to be trusted, and what's worse, us boys play right into it; rather than seeing the facts for what they are.
3. Andrew and Jen have got it. This situation is wayyy past F_cked. You need to have a sit down.
4. If you're more worried about saving face and telling the story right than being truly supportive of your friend(s), you will always be construed as a jerk. What's more important, your perceived reputation, or the actual success and happiness of your friends?
1. WSB is right. He had a window. He should've closed within 3 meetings, and then either kept her, or kicked her to the curb.
2. It wouldn't be a problem if your guy friends would simply maintain a "Bros-B4-Hoes" rule. Many girls are too competitive and catty to be trusted, and what's worse, us boys play right into it; rather than seeing the facts for what they are.
3. Andrew and Jen have got it. This situation is wayyy past F_cked. You need to have a sit down.
4. If you're more worried about saving face and telling the story right than being truly supportive of your friend(s), you will always be construed as a jerk. What's more important, your perceived reputation, or the actual success and happiness of your friends?
