ok well this kinda helped me but i still feel like shit.........so i think i am gonna stop ing for now and find a :rock: and climb under it

 

 

Jen,

If you haven't figured out by now that you're sexy then there's nothing that any of us can say to make it any clearer.

In the time I've been on this board I've watched guys fall all over themselves for your attention (myself included, actually) and that is NOT something that guys do if they don't like a girl.

You need to stop focusing on the label and start paying attention to the actions and emotions behind them.

I have a feeling that the guy that called you cute did it TOTALLY as a compliment and didn't realize that it was one of your buttons that he was pushing.

I bet he feels horrible for makinig you feel this way...

 

Jen, you are sexy!

 

 

50000%

 

I used to get called "sweet" or "cute" by all of my friends' mums, and it used to pi$$ the hell out of me ..... it just took a while for me to realise that that was who I was and that I needed to find someone who was looking for that in a guy.

Don't fight who or what you are, nothing is going to change that. Get out there and look for someone who is looking for you ...... I made a big mistake with one girlfriend, try to be who I thought she wanted me to be, and even though she was happy with me, I wasn't !!

 

all you guys are really sweet...thanks for the words and the 's