#@$ @#$219st Official Hard At Work Thread#@$@$#
Originally Posted by tacocat,Jul 21 2009, 10:11 AM
hey dont get offended. You have to be lying to yourself if you are making the case that spouses in the military struggle more than most to maintain a career.
i'm simply saying that Bobby has been in the military and understands the military way of life. Transitioning is going to be simpler to her than it would for a spouse that has never been in the military.. thats all...
ofcourse its hard.. and it goes both ways... females in the military with their spouses that werent in the military.... and usually guys are more prideful and its harder for them to deal with ..
i see this ALL the time.
Originally Posted by Gilly_S2KFreak,Jul 21 2009, 10:15 AM
Jeff doesn't have a choice
and dont let the recruiter lie to you and tell you do.
You will be stationed where the military needs you, based on your skill set. Now, you can control your skill set--so if you want Ft. Meade find out a skill set that fits in with Ft. Meade needs.
Originally Posted by HMFIC,Jul 21 2009, 10:06 AM
is it because being away from Bobby? and worrying about the house and what not?
when i was away in training.. many a time...
i was SO damn busy training i didnt have time to even THINK about a time to think lol
when i was away in training.. many a time...
i was SO damn busy training i didnt have time to even THINK about a time to think lol

I am a hyper-analytical SOB and I refuse to make decisions without information. Right now I am not at all comfortable with what I "know" about military service. Perhaps it is that fear that is causing me issues.
I dunno... I was really disappointing with SGT George canceled my appointment. I really wanted to talk to him so I could answer some of the questions in my head.









