So my co-worker is 34. He met this 19yr old who I swear acts 28! In actuality, she's only 19! Anything wrong with that???

 

abso-frickin-lutely NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


More power to him

 

<--is 21 and dates older women

 

Yea it's wrong not to share pics!

 

 

Well, I'm 34, and ... well, nevermind. This is a public forum.

 

You guys are funny! I'll try and get them out and take a pic. really? You guys don't see anything wrong with that???

 

Well, there is nothing inherently wrong with it. But one does have to ask why a 34 yo can only pick up kids. I'm sure the 19 yo is really mature, and really likes him, and is basically great. But your friend has entirely different goals in life than the 19 yo girl, I guarantee. One day the girl is going to wise up to the fact that mr. 34 yo isn't as cool and manly as she once thought, and she'll start to think she really has nothing in common with him but where they live. Hopefuly they won't be married already.

I'm sure the girl and her friends think it is cool as hell, too. No-one is being taken advantage of, but at least one person is going to change their mind down the road. Ask me how I know

No matter how "mature" this girl acts, she's still 19, and unless she's crazy, or your friend is one superb being, she's going to have a hard time missing out on screwing 20 yo's while she can (Sorry for being so crude ) She can always find an older guy, but she will not always be able to manipulate young male minds with a smile

 

19year olds unless they have lots of money or good role models, do NOT know what they want in life yet...

 

gotta agree here. 19 year olds are 99% not mature, havent graduated from college, just barely high school. A 34 yr old should be mature and at a much different stage in life.

I have had problems dating a girl 4-5 years younger than me (26) because she was still immature and didnt know a lot about life and situations that come up in life.

If you are looking for a good time and whatnot, then yea a 19 year old is sweeet. But for a serious relationship, she better be that 1% or the guy will get sick of it real quick.