Damn on our 3 year anniversary we break up . We just got into a big fight and that was it is over....... damn i dont know what to do now we even planned on getting married and what not. Damn im so stressed out any sugguestions how to feel better after a 3 year relationship?

 

Pull yer pud.

 

That really sucks. Just try anything to take your mind off of it. Do things that you used to like doing, but maybe didn't have the time to do lately - working out, hanging out w/ friends, going to concerts, etc. Only time will make it easier.....

 

no advice can be given. Just takes time. Go about your life, you'll eventually get back to "normal." whatever that might be

 

work hard, and save that money for the ring that should be on the woman of your dreams (not necessarily your ex), especially now that you can see how green the grass are on the other side.

 

if you really love her. Apologize and ask (beg) her to take you back.

(once you're married, you'll be apologizing everyday anyway. So start practicing now)

 

even tho it wasnt my fault i apologized damn i tried driving my car usually that cheers me up but damn it didnt help. thanks for yall imput appreciated

 

Just bone her sister.

 

Yea, nothing helps like a rebound!

 

Just like other people are saying, it take time. After college, I broke up with my ex. It was a four year relationship, more or less living together for those four years. Just like you, we talked about marriage and getting old together.

Needless to say, that didn't work out. The first month or so is pretty damn hard. You start thinking about those years you spent with her, and that maybe breaking up wasn't the right idea. You even start thinking about ways to get back with her. Deep down inside though, you gotta really ask yourself, is she worth getting back together with. Even though it's extremely hard to, you gotta try and set your emotions aside and think objectively. Could you really spend the rest of your life with this woman? Is she really everything you could ever want (or even close to what you would ever want?)

For the next month, set aside those feelings that you have for missing her company. Just analyze if she's really the one or not. If you can look yourself in the mirror and say she is not the one, then move on. Just start hanging out with your friends more often. Go to the movies, do something to occupy your time. And then after about 2 months, go out on the dating scene again.

Same shit happened to me, and now I've been with my current girlfriend for a little over two years now. Happened to be a girl I had a crush on during my freshman year in college (that was 8 years ago!). Breaking up with my ex couldn't have ended up any better!