I have grown to dislike my girlfriend's ex boyfriend dispite the fact that he and I used to be friends.

Should I punch him in the taint? Let him know he should back the fkcu off? Trust her to handle him (metaphorically speaking)?

or I could always DTR,NATS.

 

i would say stay away from his taint. unless, of course, that's what you're after. or option 4

 

Current girlfriends hanging out with ex-boyfriends in any situation is a bad sign

 

You need to put an end to them hanging out. ASAP

 

They don't hang out, but he's harassing her. Calling nonstop, texting, showing up at her apartment drunk at 4 in the morning when she's with me...

crap like that.

 

You just need to confront him seriously and tell him to put a stop to it. You don't have to be a dik, but be prepared for a fight, if necessary. I would do this, Go to his place of employment and wait for him. As he walks into work, walk right up to him and say nothing, let him talk first. Most likely, he will says something like, "whats up? or what are you doing here?". You respond by saying this as serious as possible, "I came here to tell you to stop harassing my girl friend.... I'm only going to tell you this one time and I expect you to listen to what I am saying to you, understand? he will say "ok" and then you can just turn around and walk away. Make you wear fighting clothes too, so you are prepared as he will not be, but i guarantee he wont fight you.

 

Sure is, and if she seriously wants him to F off, then girls know how to make guys do just that.

 

If he's drunk, beat him up and take his clothes and wallet, but avoid his taint!

 

Tell her you have no tolerance for his crap. Tell her she either needs to solve the problem, or some other chick is going to ride the GNN baloney pony.

Don't penalize a guy for being a guy. Penalize a woman for continuing to put up with a douche.

. . . and there is always DTR, NATS.