College
Originally Posted by VTEC_Junkie,Jan 14 2005, 11:13 AM
don't be naive into thinking that by going to a prestigeous school you are automatically set for success in life.
Originally Posted by VTEC_Junkie,Jan 14 2005, 11:24 AM
i never specifically referred to you as naive.
it was just a general statement. i'm sorry if the wording was a bit misleading... nonetheless, i feel that when giving advice to the young ones, it's more important to emphasize goals, plans, and strategies as oppose to being overly concerned with getting into prestigous colleges. good colleges are important, but without goals, plans, and strategies, a good college will do virtually nothing for you. on the other hand, if you have goals, plans, and strategies, you'll be able to amount to something even if you are attending a mediocre school.
it was just a general statement. i'm sorry if the wording was a bit misleading... nonetheless, i feel that when giving advice to the young ones, it's more important to emphasize goals, plans, and strategies as oppose to being overly concerned with getting into prestigous colleges. good colleges are important, but without goals, plans, and strategies, a good college will do virtually nothing for you. on the other hand, if you have goals, plans, and strategies, you'll be able to amount to something even if you are attending a mediocre school.While I agree to an extent that goals are important, there is a major difference that I think you're missing.
In my experience, some schools will allow you to explore far more than others. For example, I was able to double major in theatre and business. I started school as a chemistry major. I looked into becoming an art major at one point.
My friends at other schools would never have been able to switch around like this. They were expected to know going in what they wanted to study.
Maybe this is a better arguement for smaller vs. larger school instead of prestigious vs. less prestigious, but its something worth keeping in mind.
There are plenty of things to consider but I think these two are pretty important:
Visit the campus - You may have heard/read great things about a school but you need to be certain you will be comfortable and like it there. It's just like test driving a car. If the car just doesn't "fit" you, you aren't going to like driving it eventhough it has everything you want on paper.
Know what type of student you are - if you had excellent study habits and discipline in HS, then most likely you will do well anywhere. If your study habits were a bit marginal, then don't go to a school that has a lot of distractions or is party school.
Good luck!
Visit the campus - You may have heard/read great things about a school but you need to be certain you will be comfortable and like it there. It's just like test driving a car. If the car just doesn't "fit" you, you aren't going to like driving it eventhough it has everything you want on paper.
Know what type of student you are - if you had excellent study habits and discipline in HS, then most likely you will do well anywhere. If your study habits were a bit marginal, then don't go to a school that has a lot of distractions or is party school.
Good luck!
I would avoid living at home and doing the commuter school thing. That's what I did. You miss on any real independence and miss out on a much richer social/cultural milieu.
Your bud's will either be moving on themselves, getting married, etc. and you'll be the odd man out in that. There are also great stresses at being the child/adult in the family home during that time that could impact on your studies.
As was mentioned, choose the best you can afford. True, there's no guarantee of success but you'll have a leg up on the competition with the contacts you can develop.
Your bud's will either be moving on themselves, getting married, etc. and you'll be the odd man out in that. There are also great stresses at being the child/adult in the family home during that time that could impact on your studies.
As was mentioned, choose the best you can afford. True, there's no guarantee of success but you'll have a leg up on the competition with the contacts you can develop.
Originally Posted by Skuzzy,Jan 14 2005, 06:36 AM
Exceptions to this are where people think they want to go to a christian college and soon find out it is boring and full of ugly and/or lame profs.



