Could you marry someone that you cheated on??
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Could you marry someone that you cheated on??
Has anybody done this?? You dont have to confess...just say you know it happened. If you were the person that was the cheater...would you think about how you cheated on the person that you're spending the rest of your life with?? 
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no way I could keep that a secret, it would kill me forever. If the couple has talked about it and gone thru the ringers over the issue and were able to work thru it, then sure. But if you are asking about keeping it a secret, no way. Marriage is built on honesty
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I guess a lot depends on how the situation was handled & if the person really made an effort to change his/her ways. If it was truly a one time only mistake and the relationship has progressed in a positive way, I'm sure it's possible.
However, I can be a jealous and revengeful b!tch, so I don't think I'd be able to do it.
However, I can be a jealous and revengeful b!tch, so I don't think I'd be able to do it.
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People has loose ethics now-a-day.
In a good way, if u cheated on her, and after that want to get married with her, do it. U have proven to urself that shes the one that u want, and nobody else. Its better to do it now that after u get married. Get over it, marry the girl (that obviously u love), but never, ever do it again.
Just humble my opinion.
In a good way, if u cheated on her, and after that want to get married with her, do it. U have proven to urself that shes the one that u want, and nobody else. Its better to do it now that after u get married. Get over it, marry the girl (that obviously u love), but never, ever do it again.
Just humble my opinion.
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I really hope people dont do this. But there's no real way of telling....people do really have awful ethics (endLess_Pain, seriously it sucks). I guess I can see this happening but only if the person who did the cheating was so desperate to hold on to a good thing that they would do anything to salvage what they have.
I would just hope that the cheating thing not happen ever again....
I would just hope that the cheating thing not happen ever again....
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I don't believe you should marry someone you cheated on unless you've confessed it to them. I'm speaking from a biblical point of view, as scripture clearly states that fornication (sex with another person) is reason for divorce if that hasn't been confessed prior to marriage.
As for the guy that said BS to marriage being built on honesty, I'm guessing that either a) you've never been married, b) you weren't honest when you were married (cause I doubt you still are married with an attitude like that), or c) you're just a cynic. A marriage is, without doubt, not a marriage if either of the two are less than honest, ESPECIALLY when it comes to fidelity.
As for the guy that said BS to marriage being built on honesty, I'm guessing that either a) you've never been married, b) you weren't honest when you were married (cause I doubt you still are married with an attitude like that), or c) you're just a cynic. A marriage is, without doubt, not a marriage if either of the two are less than honest, ESPECIALLY when it comes to fidelity.