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From: SJC
Originally Posted by prodigy3006,Jul 16 2007, 11:09 AM
does she have any specific hobbies or into any activities?
a.) on a first date (where you're supposed to find out what her interests are)?
b.) if it's something he doesn't care about?
c.) if it may, or may not, have anything to do with getting you a second date?
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Originally Posted by Shinigami,Jul 16 2007, 02:32 AM
On my first date with my current GF, we went out to see Lord of the Rings (forgot which one... I think it was the second movie, this was nearly 5 years ago), and ince we were 'kind' of dressing up for it (you know, elvish cloaks, bow and arrow), I made a crown out of red roses and gave this to her when I met her down at the cinema.
She was pretty delighted
She was pretty delighted
He may be a "nerd" and a Bleach fanatic (anime he probably based his name on), but he got pimp skills. Keep up the smooth mackage and make sure you let her win at Magic every once in awhile
.As for non-alcoholic date ideas: +1 zoo or museum. Also, if you have a park around your area, which I doubt considering the comments about how hot your area is, take the gal out on a nice picnic, bring some sparkling cider (would've suggested wine, but remembered the no alcohol rule) and just chill and have a good conversation with her.
Many guys fail to realize the significant effect a good conversation with a chick really has on them.
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From: Monteagle, TN
Originally Posted by gotrice02,Jul 16 2007, 05:42 AM
Don't try to jump through hoops to get laid, women are freakishly good at picking up on this.
3.) You have to try to save time by seeing how much she really likes you. A chick that likes you will ask a ton of questions about you, its annoying yes, but its a good sign and means she is interested in you.
3.) You have to try to save time by seeing how much she really likes you. A chick that likes you will ask a ton of questions about you, its annoying yes, but its a good sign and means she is interested in you.
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I don't know why everyone thinks thinks this is our first date. We've gone out a couple times already, and I screwed up in the beginning treating her just like another ho happy jackey. That's why now I"m trying to be more special and attentive to try and fix my mistake. I think she's a nice conservative girl, and thats why I'm actually trying beyond my normal routines.
Thanks for the suggestions guys, maybe something good with come out of it. According to the players handbook ^, I'm it's already over.
oh well plenty more fish in the sea.
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From: Between Hell/Ann Arbor
Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Jul 14 2007, 02:23 PM
Unkie Trunkie tends to say "no" to most concerts. The reason being is that attention is no longer on you, and she will have to go with the intention of competing with the other women there. Bad. Bad. Bad.
I save the concerts for when it's long-term, and we both like the artist.
Classical concerts can be an exception though. Go see what's playing at University of Redlands (if anything). Cheap(er), classy, and the hoopla is mostly removed.
I save the concerts for when it's long-term, and we both like the artist.
Classical concerts can be an exception though. Go see what's playing at University of Redlands (if anything). Cheap(er), classy, and the hoopla is mostly removed.
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From: Bowie, MD
Originally Posted by NFRs2000NYC,Jul 15 2007, 03:01 AM
Dude...you need to be more creative, or else she will get bored, and move on. Beach, mall, show, fun little cruise in your car with a nice picnic, whatever. If you want my opinion? Your relationship is doomed. A boring date has nothing to do with activities. It just means you have terrible conversation. There are girls Ive been out with that I can sit on the stoop of my house, and have a GREAT time. There are girls I can take to vegas, and want to slit my wrists. If the conversation is good, then the activities dont matter.
a couple of times(a lot of times) when i was broke i would take a female out to go to some place where i dont have to spend money like a lake or something and there was also times where i had money and we ate at restaurants. funny thing is it all depends on your ability to talk.
good thing i know how to talk to girls because i really dont like spending money. a movie and dinner would cost me around 60$ a night. a stroll on the beach or lake would cost me 10$