Ok so I have a problem here....

First off i'm 24....I've known this girl (kristen) since 3rd grade... we've liked each other since then but about 4 yrs ago i didnt know if thats what I wanted so we both went our own ways and dated other people.

Kristen was in a relationship with some kid for 3 yrs. She broke up with him and realized she wanted to be with me.

We just started dating about 6 months ago and out of nowhere she now wants to focus on herself and wants to better herself so she broke up with me. She still talks to me and im 80% sure she wants to be with me for the rest of my life just because we have so much chemistry.



I have had this one girl ( jacky) as a f@#k buddy for like 6 yrs and when my girl broke up with me I called jacky to see if she wanted to hangout.. .

Now the problem is I feel SO guilty that im talkin to jacky and idk how i'll feel after I have sex with her...

Like what happens if i hangout with jacky then a week later kristen wants to get back together? Do i tell kristen? Is that considered cheating?

What are your guys' opinions on this and what would you do in my situation? .. mind you I actually love kristen to death but im just so heartbroken over her decision to not want to be official with me. But sex with jacky is amazing lol and its nice she doesnt want to get attached.

 

sounds like a Loveline question..

 

I don't see what the problem is here. You guys weren't official. You went out and did what you did with Jacky. How would you feel if Kristen did the same thing with another guy?

 

U got me there. Id probably feel more depressed than I am now

 

Unbastardly answer: If it's not emotionally stable for you, for her to f@#k other people. Then you should *probably* use that as your answer.

Bastardly answer: You're a free man. f@#k anything that wants to f@#k you back. www.blowmeuptom.com inb4unkie

Here's the thing though: You two aren't together. You don't really have a right to get mad at her for sleeping around, and vice versa. However, as emotions go, just because you can, doesn't mean you should. You're the only one who knows the question to the answer you seek. But in all areas of life, I always suggest the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would want done unto you. Unless you're massochistic by nature, then you can't really go wrong with that guide set.

 

wasn't there a FRIENDS Episode where Ross's big line was *we were on a break* when he did what you did....

Goodluck.... kinda like ryuken said... maybe she is doing the same thing.... you were on a break....

 

"She still talks to me and im 80% sure she wants to be with me for the rest of my life just because we have so much chemistry." Sounds like she is 0% sure. Time to move on.

 

This.

Every minute you worry about what your non-wife/non-girlfriend/non-f-buddy thinks is one minute wasted on making you the best person you can be.

Women crave excellent men. Sitting there stewing in your own juices ain't leading to excellence.

 

7 replies and still no request for pics? I thought that was pretty much standard procedure for "girl" posts so we can see what all the fuss is about.

Y'all guys are slackin in here.

 

We also used to suggest punching her in the throat too, but let's face it. . .

There's the Back Lot now.