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A girl made me sad today...

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Old Oct 27, 2001 | 08:23 PM
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Default A girl made me sad today...

Don't really know what happened. I was kinda dating her for a couple weeks, and everything was good. I went to Michigan for a week and a half, and see her the night I get back. We talk all night (rare), and she kisses me goodnight... Since that night, I get stood up twice. I finally see her today, and she's totally acting flirty, but then I got downgraded to a kiss on the cheek! WTF was that? I think she's playing with my mind...

I'm not calling her anymore. I took her number out of my cell phone so I wouldn't be tempted to call her.

Girls... I'm gonna be in A-hole mode for a while, I guess.
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Old Oct 27, 2001 | 08:34 PM
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Maybe she is *confused*. (Whatever that means). I just had a situation very similar to that. Don't even get me started. We still talk on the phone every night, all night, but do not have what we would conventionally refer to as a relationship. I know that I want a relationship, but she is not sure what she wants. My advice....drop her while the going is good. You have very little at this point invested in the relationship, so it shouldn't be too emotionally gut wrenching. Although....why don't I take my own advice....hmmm
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Old Oct 27, 2001 | 10:55 PM
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Girls can do that to ya...I'm kind of in the middle of a weird situation myself, and I try to put it out of my mind, but it's like an annoying fly around your head...you just can't get rid of it.
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Old Oct 27, 2001 | 11:46 PM
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this is why you ALWAYS have rainy day girls listed in your cell phone. you're single, enjoy it while it lasts and keep your options open
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Old Oct 28, 2001 | 06:04 PM
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No offence man, but you talk tooo much and she may have a different agenda.
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Old Oct 28, 2001 | 07:33 PM
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That sucks bro. You gotta go with your gut feeling, though. Move on and minimize the damage.
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Old Oct 28, 2001 | 08:27 PM
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Run for the hills bro! Chickens are evil! If you don't know that she is a totally awesome person in every way within the first 10 seconds of meeting her, bail out. Take Ming's advice are put her in "The Chicktionary" under "Plan B".
Just talking from experience. Here on Long Island there are a lot of devious bitches with hidden agendas. To live here and survive while your single you must never trust a women and be reliant solely on your boys. It sounds ridiculous, but I live by the motto: "Bros before Hoes"
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Old Oct 29, 2001 | 06:06 AM
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ummmm that's why you don't let your heart get involved too soon...everyone gets hurt cause they rely so much on the other person...screw her...plenty of girls out there...be strong
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Old Oct 29, 2001 | 01:24 PM
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Originally posted by mike2k
No offence man, but you talk tooo much and she may have a different agenda.
My agenda was definitely not to talk all night .

Originally posted by Swurvydel
ummmm that's why you don't let your heart get involved too soon...everyone gets hurt cause they rely so much on the other person...screw her...plenty of girls out there...be strong
Yeah, I agree. The last girl I saw, I dated for 3 1/2 years. I guess I was just out of practice when this new girl came around... I kinda just got blindsided by the whole thing.

I'm feeling much better now, by the way. I guess I didn't have it too bad for her. I erased her # from my cell phone so I wouldn't be tempted to call her, and my appetite's back. By the way, driving the s2k down a twisty road with some good tunes is great therapy
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Old Oct 29, 2001 | 01:43 PM
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this is why you ALWAYS have rainy day girls listed in your cell phone. you're single, enjoy it while it lasts and keep your options open
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