Tell her you found it and go buy another one. This way if she is lying and took yours, she will know you are lying but will not be able to call you on it...

 

 

I told her I will get another one... All I got is more some sobbing and sadness asking me why I need another one??!!

I just said, so whoever stole from me sees I have no problem getting a new one, I don't even have to use it, I just want it. I can't prove she took it, and i'm pretty sure after this much shit, she would have broke and said something... In the end, I just said, if you took it, and did not tell me, this means you stole from me, you lied to me, and that's a bullshit relationship, if that's what you want and can live with that over a piece of plastic, fine, but I guess you will be lying to yourself for the rest of our relationship. (made myself proud x2 )

w/e, it's time to be detective Luke again and try to figure out what the hell happened to it!

 

Dude stop being such a hard ass...you are going to blow it over bullshit and then regret it later.

 

I know, I know... It's just that I thought about all the options and what could have happened to it, and she was the only one. Sucks, it's hard not to get mad or question, but it's solved, I just wont care.

...I thought, what if she really didn't? Now I just look like the biggest asshole around

 

Exactly! Just chill out, pick your battles and be glad you found a hot chick that lets you touch her "no no" spots.

 

What does that have to do with anything... There are so many hot chicks out there... I for one would like to know if she did really take it.

 

Okay the sobbing would bother me.

What is she sobbing about?

Because you are doing something she finds unacceptable?

If so--Why wouldn't she just leave you?

A. Because she thinks you're worth overlooking it for.

if so she needs to accept it, no sobbing

B. Because she doesn't want to be alone and/or find someone that doesn't do things she finds unacceptable?

If so she needs to get a hold of herself and move on

Eitherway she needs to let you be you accept it or move on.

 

I completly disagree, if he knows she took it not getting to the absolute bottom of it will just reinforce her unacceptable behaviour (if she took it). She should know that he got another one, we are all what we are and she has a right (I'm assuming this relationship has been going on for over 6 months) to know the bad and the good. If she can't handle it then she/he needs to end the relationship becuase that type of crap always grows and you don't want it to get a full blown head of steam after you are married, have kids, a house. I wouldn't hound her if you're not 100% positive if she took it, but you really need to make it clear that you're going to clubs using your fun id. She needs to accept it or leave.