sorry, dudes, it's really silly but... i'm really getting crazy here...

how do you ask a girl out?

i saw my "dream girl" during the fashion show rehearsal today...
and i was just standing there going ...

the thing is, i CANNOT ask a girl out... never done it before, and i'm too shy, i just can't.

help me out here!
how do you guys pick up girls?

 

Just start up a conversation with her. Try to see if you have mutual interests. See if you click. After a while, you should know if it is worth asking her out.

 

The most important thing to do is make lots of eye contact and smile! You can usually tell if someone is interested--when making eye contact. I'd go up to her and maybe compliment her on what she's wearing--like "do you get to keep that?" "Did you choose to wear that because that looks beautiful on you--you show the lines of that dress so well." "What do you usually do after these shows?....wanna get some Sushi with me?" "I was wondering if you were going to the "after" party?"

Just take a deep breath and walk up to her and say something--taking a deep breath always helps. What's the worst thing that can happen? She's married, engaged, has a boyfriend, has a girlfriend, isn't interested...then at least you can walk away knowing the chance was taken.

My guide is the eye contact-next is do I really want to get to know the person--because sometimes after noticing that they are attracted to me--I stopped to think if I really do want to get involved with that person. There's this one person I just think is gorgeous--kept looking at them and they look back, we crossed paths and started talking, they said they noticed me before, we exchanged phone numbers, they didn't call, saw them again, they said to call them, but something just tells me--not to go there--they are great to look at but not to get involved with. There is actually-quite a few of them--same situation.

Oh seung--I know you can do it! You are extremely attractive--seem intelligent, fun, interesting to get to know--

So was she looking back at you? Will you be able to see her again?

Oh yeah--I would've also offered something to drink-- bottled water works because who doesn't drink water? I say water because it was a show-- You don't drink anyway, right?

Let us know what you end up doing, k!