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I want to marry my roomate

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Old Nov 7, 2007 | 05:27 PM
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Make sure you know her and like her for who she is, not just infatuation. Also be careful of the possibility if she declines, how would you think she'd feel after her roommate asked her out?

Good luck!
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Old Nov 7, 2007 | 07:19 PM
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Pics, or she doesn't exist.
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Old Nov 7, 2007 | 07:46 PM
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You're screwed. Stop talking about marriage and start being a d!ck. And don't forget to get some.

She'll be hooked.

If you play the sappy, pining, jealous roommate you're the safety net and firmly in the "friend" zone.
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Old Nov 7, 2007 | 07:59 PM
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I have to agree with Kyushin...
it sounds like you are dangerously buried in Friend-zone.
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Old Nov 7, 2007 | 08:11 PM
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Originally Posted by MikeyCB,Nov 7 2007, 03:24 PM
I am tempted to go for it, and but my intention was to kind of get to know each other and grow over time instead of being forced to do something after she just got out of a 2+ year relationship.
Sorry, but that never works. Either you are just pretending to be her friend while you are plotting a seduction or else she'll eventually think you are. Either way, you are hosed.

Just tell her straight out how you feel and see if she feels the same way.

Easier said than done, though.
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Old Nov 7, 2007 | 10:27 PM
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We need a Relationship Advice forum.


I say GO FOR IT.
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Old Nov 7, 2007 | 11:09 PM
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Pics or banned!
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Old Nov 8, 2007 | 02:12 AM
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One thing women like is bold. Bold isn't trying to build a relationship from a friendship. Bold is getting her to go out, telling her exactly how you feel and what you want. Keep your voice sure, not pleading. Look her in the eyes. Somewhat of an old-fashioned approach. You will throw her off guard giving yourself the advantage. It has worked for me near everytime.

To add, I am currently engaged to my rebound relationship. It was a rebound for her too. We get married in the spring. They can work so long as you can avoid talking about the recent relationship. I think we tend to be more jealous of a recent love that might still be in the heart.
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Old Nov 8, 2007 | 05:39 AM
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Originally Posted by MikeyCB,Nov 7 2007, 07:06 PM
Anybody had a situation where they had a serious roommate attraction thing going on? I'm talking about, I could marry this girl and father her children.
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you idiot...attraction's not the basis for marriage....otherwise i would've married the stripper i met when i was 17.
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Old Nov 8, 2007 | 05:40 AM
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Pics mofo!!!!
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