Can someone help me out? I can't stop cheating on my girlfriends. No matter who I have dated, I have always cheated on them, no matter how long the relationship. I can't help myself. I am not married by the way so I am not cheating with my wife.

Everytime I see a hot chick I need to go bang her. I mean they don't always want me but I try anyways (and get lucky about 75% of the time).

I even dated the hottest most gorgeous piece of ass for about a year, had the best sex everyday, but I still went out when she had classes or something to do and tried to meet other girls.

I don't know whats wrong with me. Even girls I really love, I cheat on. Self-love only makes me calm down for a few hours, and after that I ready to go out and do it all over again. And I realize that MY cheating with other girls is ONLY about the sex and nothing deeper. How do you married guys do it?

 

Keep banging as long as you can until you find a girl that you would rather bang than the others you see until you see another then bang her until your ready to bang another. Whatever you do don't get married it aint right to bang others when your hitched. By a fairness standpoint break up with your girl ideally right before you bang another or immediatly after banging another. It aint fair to bang someone that loves you just to bang them after you banged another.

BANG IT ALL TO HELL!

 

How old are you man? You're only young once, and if that's still in your system, it's better to do it now then after you're married. Just be honest with at least the one night stand so you don't complicate your life. I went through that all through high school, and it continued to every single woman I dated as well until recently. Well, actually I have only been faithful to 1 girl I have dated, and funny enough, I told this chick I was probably going to be unfaithful heheh, and she was ok with it. Maybe it's not as fun if they say it's ok lol. Anyways, I'm 24 and thinking it might be time to settle down. I don't feel the urges I did before, so I'm thinking I might be ready to have a commited relationship, just not too anxious to give up my freedom of being single, as I have jumped from relationship to relationship since I was 13 until this past year. I guess this isn't the advice you were looking for, but it's the way I see it. Just like how I justify a lot of stupid things I do, I figure I'm only young once and shouldn't put a family through the stupidity....better to do it now Good luck!

 

what if she's banging other guys too? would you have a problem with it? I don't see it any different than being a thief..."sorry meng....I just can't help it..I have to steal things..."

 

Maybe there isn't anything wrong with you. Marriage isn't for everyone, and neither is monogamy; I don't see it as a big deal if you don't want to commit to one girl.

Just do your thing while you're young and able, and eventually I'm sure you'll figure out what you want. Whether that's marriage or not isn't important.

Better to bone around while you're young than to deny the urges, force yourself to get married or something, and then be all conflicted and end up in crisis and on a hooker binge at 40 years of age.

I think the better question is, why are you in a relationship?

 

I understand, but don't agree with the analogy. It is natural for men to try to "spread their seed" to as many partners as possible. That's just the laws of nature. This desire to procreate eventually calms down after our sexual prime. While I understand that this is not very PC in today's society, it's biology and very difficult to overcome. My new theory is just to be honest with everyone I get involved with. If I don't see her as "the one", I'm going to be up front and let her know I'm not looking for anything serious, and as long as they are cool with that then everything should be fine. At least this way the woman has an opportunity to get out or protect themselves emotionally. Anyways, just my $.02.

 

I bet you'd stop if you got the hiv the hep or the herp

And there are no "instructions" that someone can give you on how not to cheat. Apparently it is in your nature to be unfaithful and disrespectful of the women you are with.

Nobody can tell you how to stop. It would be like someone telling you how to cease breathing. Let's just hope that you never get married and heaven forbid bring children into this world.

 

20% of america has genital herp 80% has oral herp. Someone with oral herpes has oral sex with you and you can get genital. Something like 80% of those with genital herpes never even know they have it. Fun thought ha!

 

Someone posted a good solution about a year ago, let me see if I can find it.

 

[QUOTE=naomi-sarah,Apr 8 2005, 01:44 PM] I bet you'd stop if you got the hiv the hep or the herp

And there are no "instructions" that someone can give you on how not to cheat.