Hey guys I just broke up with my girlfriend, we been going out for 3 years I am really sad that things didn't work out between us since I wanted to propose to her later this year so anyways i am very I want to get away from here, so do you guys think is a good idea going to Hawaii by myself?

 

i would not go alone, am going to need something to distract me from thinking back etc. i would go with a bunch of good friends. party it up and forget everything (if thats what u want).

 

I asked some my friends if they wanted to go but none of them have time. I really need to take some time off.

 

The local bar is just a cab fare away.

 

Right now you need to do what feels right for you. I know a guy that went to Hawaii, over Christmas no less, after a breakup because he needed to be away.

It all comes down to whether you want to be away and alone, or local with your friends to support you. There isn't a right or wrong answer... only what feels right for you. Unfortunately, you're going to be depressed wherever you are....but there are worse places to nurse a wound then Hawaii. Nothing wrong with taking a solo vacation either.

 

Thanks! I think you are right no matter where I am, I am going to be still sad. My friends really support me and want to hang out with me but I just want to get away and try to forget some things. I wanted to go to Hawaii because I planned to go with my gf but since we aren't together I thought I just go alone!

 

Do it, go by yourself. I was in a similar situation about 4 years ago, so I went to Miami by myself. I just hung out on the beach, went to dinner, sat by the pool, and relaxed. I think I went 48 hours without uttering a word to anyone. It was very therapeutic.

 

if you can afford going to hawaii by yourself....go for it brother!!!! the girls will love ya....single guy all by himself in hawii......*pornomusicplays*

 

grab a couple buddies and just go out to a bar and chill. nothing beats hanging out with your good friends. but it is also VERY relaxing and helpful to be alone someplace. if you live near the shore go ahead and take a drive down there. what helps me when im down and out is taking my car out with my favorite couple of cds and just cruising down the highway. your hometown might make you feel sad, so try going someplace else. my best opinion would be to grab a playstation and game away for a few hours. good luck man, sorry to hear about the breakup

 

We all need different things at different times. Just do what you feel you need to do to heal.