let me just say... state your opinions, keep this thread civil, and lets please refrain from hurtful name calling.

 

That's not C Unit's ass - he's cheating on her.

 

[QUOTE=OCMusicJunkie,Feb 19 2007, 10:39 PM] So I'll try to keep the back-story as short as possible. I'm not usually the type to whine about women, but I really can't get a clear picture of this situation and what I should do. I'd much appreciate any advice from people who have lived through this stuff before.

I've been living with my girlfriend for 14 months, and we have been dating for 18. We've certainly had our ups-and-downs... she cheated on me a little less than a year ago, and my trust has been slow to return, especially as she's done the same thing in past relationships. We do get on each others nerves, and we've had enough bumps in the road that we sometimes don't show affection as we once did. However, I love her more than anything in the world, and I can't imagine the connection we have is typical, even for married couples.

She has a degree in interior design and is starting her professional career. I stopped going to school to help swing the cost of living together. Finances are tough sometimes.

Here is what's going on now: a week ago she admitted she was accepted for a low-income bond for a VERY upscale apartment complex in the area. She will be paying $800 a month for a $1900 1-bedroom. She says that my distrust has made her feel restricted, and she wants to take a step back to living apart and being just boyfriend and girlfriend. She keeps telling me I should take the chance, move back home with my family, and finish school. However, the fact that she spent two weeks planning the move to the smallest detail without telling me makes her trustworthiness even more questionable. Also, I think that after footing 2/3 of our bills for the past 14 months, her ending up in a luxury apartment and me ending up in my childhood bedroom seems a bit unfair. She is aware that I wouldn

 

so, if my opinion is that you're a dick, that works, right?

(PS. drinks are moved to uptown on thursday - erock caved)

 

It's not? That's a cute ass.

 

I don't find that hurtfull.. Just keep what I'm sayin in mind...for once!

Sweet

 

Stop all those name calling especially whores and ho's. She is young, and admit she made mistakes.

Please Keep all those negative comments to yourself. We are already short of girl as is. We need more fun and energetic like her around here, do you guys want to scare her away? who are we to judge her anyway?

 

1. but of course....

2. there's a first time for everything....but today's not the day.

3. ya...truth be told, easier for me too.

 

Damn, this thread is confusing...I think I'll go home and cheat with my Guiness Extra Stout .

 

methinks a tube sock might do the job better.