A question to all the men...
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From: Aurora
Pretty much I just have to get what kind of a mood she's in...or I just ask her. She's usually not jealous but when she is, I stay away from other girls. She doesn't care if I hit on or dance with other girls, and if anything happens, I KNOW the rules and I NEVER violate them. I know, if I did violate them once, it would be no more fun for me. It's happened a couple times and there was no bad feelings at all. Of course, it could have been due to the fact that the other girl was happily married and there was no chance of her trying to get with me. And no, her husband was not there. My only rule: NO OTHER MEN! She can do what ever, whenever she want's with a girl as long as I give the OK (make sure she's not ugly or fat, in case my wife is drunk), but no guys other than me.
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From: LA
Yes, you only live once--but just be cautious with the one you love and the one who loves you!
Oh--reading the thread title--I guess I shouldn't have answered since it's a question to all the men.
1. Do what you and your wife feel is right.
2. Do what you and your wife feel is right.
3. Do what you and your wife feel is right.
4. Do what you and your wife feel is right.
People should do whatever they want as long as they can live with it. If you are on here questioning it--then maybe you should reeeaaaallly think hard before doing it. A friend of mine gave me great advice for marriage-- If you don't mind your husband/wife doing it then go for it!
Example: He told his wife he was going to a party with female strippers--his wife asked him if he would mind her going to see male strippers. He stayed home with her. I also heard that a wife was tired of her husband going to strip clubs so she invited some girlfriends over and had a male stripper while her husband was there--he stopped going to strip clubs.
I know, I know--he shouldn't have told her about the strippers---but like I always told my ex-partner--I may not find out now--but the truth/details may come out weeks, months, years from now...I will always find out the truth so just be honest from the get-go! Again, it's YOUR LIFE--LIVE IT the way you want to! Good for you Milo.
FYI, I only do 3somes w/ all girls only!
Oh--reading the thread title--I guess I shouldn't have answered since it's a question to all the men.
1. Do what you and your wife feel is right.
2. Do what you and your wife feel is right.
3. Do what you and your wife feel is right.
4. Do what you and your wife feel is right.
People should do whatever they want as long as they can live with it. If you are on here questioning it--then maybe you should reeeaaaallly think hard before doing it. A friend of mine gave me great advice for marriage-- If you don't mind your husband/wife doing it then go for it!
Example: He told his wife he was going to a party with female strippers--his wife asked him if he would mind her going to see male strippers. He stayed home with her. I also heard that a wife was tired of her husband going to strip clubs so she invited some girlfriends over and had a male stripper while her husband was there--he stopped going to strip clubs.
I know, I know--he shouldn't have told her about the strippers---but like I always told my ex-partner--I may not find out now--but the truth/details may come out weeks, months, years from now...I will always find out the truth so just be honest from the get-go! Again, it's YOUR LIFE--LIVE IT the way you want to! Good for you Milo.
FYI, I only do 3somes w/ all girls only!
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From: Burke Centre
In my book... it's all fun and games until someone gets hurt. I've seen marriages die a horrible and grotesque death from this kind of behavior. People change over time. What's fun today isn't necessarily fun tomorrow, then the regret kicks in.
