wow, I've been hurt by women before, some worse then others, one messed me up for a few years, but come on..all women suck?

you might as well just play for the other team then..

Like I said, I know that some women can be minipulative, mean, lie, etc. etc...hell sounds like every work day for me..

So I guess my point is...shit, I dont really know, just tired of hearing about how women suck all the time.

Now, lets keep this post civil, there will be no personal jabs of any kind, or it will be locked..

 

damn, just trying to console a brotha by saying women suck. Hmm of course not all women suck. There are the rare ones that are naturally beautiful and also low maintenance. The girls that can be beautiful and hot without much effort who are down to earth and have some ambition, now those are diamonds in the rough.

 

My experience has been that I've known some incredible women over the years but none yet that I wanted to marry.

Longest time dating a woman, 2.5 years.

Longest time living with a woman, just short of 6 months.

Where I was living at the time, it was 6 months before I could be sued as if I was her husband and could smell something suspicious and moved out.

She demanded that we remain dating (the sex was incredible) and did that until she started up with another guy, after which we both walked away.

I was generous in the split but she was still bitter and took all she could get.

I blame myself, my own horniness and my own selection errors.

Get burned a few times and you remember well those hard lessons.

Yeah, I know there are great Women out there, but those toads are getting tiresome.

For now, I walk alone and James, you are oh so correct, and sometimes an honest transaction and quick satisfaction is better than the long and possibly disastrous haul. Especially with the current status of young professional males having almost all human rights stripped away.

 

Whoa.. from the way you were talking in the beginning I thought you were in Highschool

 

No, I for sure don't understand women...just ask my wife..

 

okay,

I understand being at least semi-suspicious of girls after a messy incident. And i myself used to share the "Sisters man, they're all sisters, it's one big conspiracy" philosophy for a while. However. That kind of attitutde almost sets you up for failure because it makes any genuine feelings or what have you from the girl appear to be nothing more than some scam to get in your wallet.

Girls will ALWAYS defend the girl first regardless. When a four year relationship ended for me. Most people regarded the whole matter as being brought on by the girl. However, because I was the one with the dumbstick, I got the shaft.

oh the never-ending search for the girl you've never seen before in a place you've never been....

 

oh yeah, two dates, by no means, counts as bf/gf....regardless of what was said. While this Heather girl's actions certainly are dishonest, I still wouldn't count this on my relationship list.

A cold lasts longer than the duration of your Heather experience

don't give up the search man
--Jim

 

Relationships take time to build...they don't happen in two dates. My suggestion with the next one you meet would be to cool it with the serious stuff a bit. You might have scared her off and her agreeing to it might have been the easiest "way out" for her in an awkward moment. I hope you don't take this as a dig cause I've been too aggressive myself in the past.

 

yup some girls will high tail it out of there when they see that you are so into it and "jumping the gun" so to speak.

Girls, there are no real explainations for their behaviour, why can't they be simple like guys. We like women and anything that is shiny

 

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