Ok guys here is the scenario:

I am in the lucky position of choosing my future with 2 incredible women. I have dated both women in the past 4 years (not simultaneously though) and have put both relationships on hold until I have decided which one I am going to pursue.
My background: I am nearing 30 years of age and am asian.

Girl #1 - She is 26 year old, We share the same culture, speak the same language, eat the same foods, she is in medical school, treats me like gold, somewhat needy, she graduated ivy league school, she is an 8 on a scale of 1 to 10 (physical beauty), and a 10 on personality, our combined salary when she graduates would be over 350K, sexually we are pretty good but I find myself thinking about other women from time to time. Both of our parents would be happy if we ended up together.

Girl #2 - She is black, 23 year old, treats me like gold, she is a 10 out of 10 (physical beauty, she reminds me of Holly Barry, light skinned, long legs, breathtaking face, slamming body, she is def. the hottest girl that I have ever known), her personality is a 9 out of 10, she would probably end up a housewife, she graduated state school, I have never been so fufilled sexually, she is the only girl that I have ever been with that I have never been tempted to cheat on, my parents and family would disown me, her parents would welcome me into her family (they are extremely multiethnic).

Who would you choose? Please help me, I have no freakin clue what to do. Any advice? I feel that my future is with one of them. Please don't flame: I feel terrible that I am comparing these 2 beautiful people.

 

i say choose the girl that you personally believe you can spend the rest of your life w/. money shouldn't be an issue, nor the racem nor ur parents approval. this is your life bro and live it by ur standards mot ur parents.
good luck

 

DANG!!! Two beautiful women to choose from... but I think you already know the answer. You just have to look deeper. I really don't think there is nothing we can tell you. All lies within yourself.

Alan

 

You should really listen to your heart as others' opinions don't seem to matter too much to you. Would you really listen to a bunch of strangers on an online forum and not even consider how the important people in your life feel about it?

But if you want my input, I would be happy to share. It seems as if sexual stimulation is the main reason as to why you would even consider lady #2. She does have a good personality or so you say, but lady #1's personality is better, or so you say. You should really list and weigh the advantages and disadvantages of both scenarios.

I choose lady #1 no doubt about it.

 

can't be 350k... live the good life.

 

First thing first, you're a big daddy pimp!

Secondly, I'd choose the #1 woman because she sounds like a better wife, and you'll still have a relationship with your parents, which is EXTREMELY important because they gave you life.

Finally, your parents would disown you? Sorry for laughing, but that's not really untypical of traditional Asian parents.

So you're an Asian guy who got with a beautiful, light-skin Black girl? Not only you're a pimp but you must have a 3-ft penis. Just kidding! I don't know why I said that.

 

Think who makes you the happiest... then screw the world and go with her.

 

I vote for #1...personality lasts a lot longer than looks.

My ex-gf was a maniac in bed, but also a little off balance personality wise. My wife is also gib, but has the best personality match (for me) that I've ever come across.

 

Heres my $0.02... Dont settle down yet. It is very clear to me at least that you enjoy the company of multiple women. Sure it may seem like its coming time to do so but step back and look. Obviously you still have the desire to lust but also enjoy the simpler things in life as well you get these from seperate people and you are happy correct? But should you decide to actually settle down and choose "the one" then think hard about it, as there is no turning back... Also as your parents they should always repspect your decisions in life, and if you make one that makes you happy they should respect that, although its maybe not something they would have done, it works for you, and it makes you happy and satisfied in life, and should you choose #2 i am sure htey would realise that, sit down and have a long talk with them about you, your life, and the reason #2 makes you happy and see what happens from there :/

 

Hey guys,

Thanks for the response. Yellowfeva, you must be asian cause you can see where I am coming from in terms of my parents (and no I am not swinging 11 inches, but her ex-boyfriend did, holy crap was I intimidated when we got into the sack for the 1st time after I heard that he was built like a porno star, but I learned that it's about the process, truly good love making is all about how much you can make the girl feel how much you love her, that and a good stroke hahaha . Girl #1 is really really sweet, but I guess I am not as attracted to her as I am girl#2 (bty girl #2 is 1/8th chinese). Thats why I am really confused, maybe some of you married guys can chime in here, do you consider your wife the "hottest" girl you know? If not, then do you desire her the most out of all the other women that are in your life? I mean I don't want to get married to girl #1 and end up cheating on her. Both would make great mothers/wives. Maybe I should marry both???