relationship problems
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relationship problems
hi guys,
I know this is first post but ive been lurking around the forum for info but I fell really bad. Ive been with my girl for the past 2 1/2 years and its been wonderful but for the last 2 month paradise turned into hell.
We started arguing and complaining about a lot of things. Last month, she decided that we needed a break to see what was better for us. We still saw each other and she was very affective. She was sure we would get back together and I did my part and worked on respecting her and being a better bf. She had to stop acting like a bitch and regain some confidence. Shes been going out with her friends for the last month and once I offered to gave her a ride back home. She was suppose to call at 2 in the night...I didnt get a call so at 3 I called and she got a lift from her friends and was sleeping. This really made me mad. Yesterday evening we were suppose to see each other to decide but insteed she goes out but I called her before. She said we werent on the same page again and that she still loved me but liked being alone. She said she didnt want to hurt me and bla bla bla. She also said that if we were made to be together, we will cross path again. Anyway I want her back so much and sunday we are going shopping (we were suppose to still be together) and I want to try something
any info on what I should do would help
im so down
she is 20 im 21
I keep this really short because I didnt want to write a Harlequin
I know this is first post but ive been lurking around the forum for info but I fell really bad. Ive been with my girl for the past 2 1/2 years and its been wonderful but for the last 2 month paradise turned into hell.
We started arguing and complaining about a lot of things. Last month, she decided that we needed a break to see what was better for us. We still saw each other and she was very affective. She was sure we would get back together and I did my part and worked on respecting her and being a better bf. She had to stop acting like a bitch and regain some confidence. Shes been going out with her friends for the last month and once I offered to gave her a ride back home. She was suppose to call at 2 in the night...I didnt get a call so at 3 I called and she got a lift from her friends and was sleeping. This really made me mad. Yesterday evening we were suppose to see each other to decide but insteed she goes out but I called her before. She said we werent on the same page again and that she still loved me but liked being alone. She said she didnt want to hurt me and bla bla bla. She also said that if we were made to be together, we will cross path again. Anyway I want her back so much and sunday we are going shopping (we were suppose to still be together) and I want to try something
any info on what I should do would help
im so down
she is 20 im 21
I keep this really short because I didnt want to write a Harlequin
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I'll be nice, before everyone jumps all over you.
You're done. Break it off, don't call, don't text, don't facebook, she is out of your life end of story.
Here's what is going on. She has decided she's tired of being in a serious relationship and she wants to sleep around. She probably has at least one or two guys she had serious interest in prior to you going on a 'break.' She is still keeping in touch with you because she wants you as a back-up plan in case being single gets lonely. You are her security blanket. You don't want that shit. Move on.
You're done. Break it off, don't call, don't text, don't facebook, she is out of your life end of story.
Here's what is going on. She has decided she's tired of being in a serious relationship and she wants to sleep around. She probably has at least one or two guys she had serious interest in prior to you going on a 'break.' She is still keeping in touch with you because she wants you as a back-up plan in case being single gets lonely. You are her security blanket. You don't want that shit. Move on.
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Originally Posted by thebig33tuna,Sep 17 2009, 12:14 PM
I'll be nice, before everyone jumps all over you.
You're done. Break it off, don't call, don't text, don't facebook, she is out of your life end of story.
Here's what is going on. She has decided she's tired of being in a serious relationship and she wants to sleep around. She probably has at least one or two guys she had serious interest in prior to you going on a 'break.' She is still keeping in touch with you because she wants you as a back-up plan in case being single gets lonely. You are her security blanket. You don't want that shit. Move on.
You're done. Break it off, don't call, don't text, don't facebook, she is out of your life end of story.
Here's what is going on. She has decided she's tired of being in a serious relationship and she wants to sleep around. She probably has at least one or two guys she had serious interest in prior to you going on a 'break.' She is still keeping in touch with you because she wants you as a back-up plan in case being single gets lonely. You are her security blanket. You don't want that shit. Move on.
You are too young to be worried about this... I know it sucks, but the best thing is just to let it go and as BT said dont call her/text/facebook/tweet... anything... Go have fun being single! There is much random strange @$$ to be had at the bars! 
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Ye maybe I should delete form facebook and all that shit. Not knowing is better sometime. I know i will be jealous if I see pictures of her with other guys...anyway delete time but damn its tuff
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The other option i guess is give her an ultimatum... like, either we're staying together or we're done for good. Give her a day to decide. That'd be a little less harsh than just cutting her off cold turkey. Make her live with her choice.
if you do cut her off, block her and probably delete any friends that are JUST her friends... that is, anyone you won't be talking to post-breakup. that is, on facebook/myspace.
if you do cut her off, block her and probably delete any friends that are JUST her friends... that is, anyone you won't be talking to post-breakup. that is, on facebook/myspace.
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Originally Posted by thebig33tuna,Sep 17 2009, 10:14 AM
I'll be nice, before everyone jumps all over you.
You're done. Break it off, don't call, don't text, don't facebook, she is out of your life end of story.
Here's what is going on. She has decided she's tired of being in a serious relationship and she wants to sleep around. She probably has at least one or two guys she had serious interest in prior to you going on a 'break.' She is still keeping in touch with you because she wants you as a back-up plan in case being single gets lonely. You are her security blanket. You don't want that shit. Move on.
You're done. Break it off, don't call, don't text, don't facebook, she is out of your life end of story.
Here's what is going on. She has decided she's tired of being in a serious relationship and she wants to sleep around. She probably has at least one or two guys she had serious interest in prior to you going on a 'break.' She is still keeping in touch with you because she wants you as a back-up plan in case being single gets lonely. You are her security blanket. You don't want that shit. Move on.
No more need be said.
