[QUOTE]Originally posted by stealth2k
Just let things be, if you run into her a again, say hi or just keep walking. If nothing good comes out of talking to her, than let it go. You don't need the drama. Maybe later when everythings kool you can talk w/ out fighting. I think the reason why the two of you are fighting is because both of you or one of you has not let go. That's just opinion. You ask what are you going to do now. There's nothing to do she has a b/f, nuff said. There is nothing to do, not your problem anymore. [/QUOTE

I couldn't have said it better myself.
Rick

 

23... and i think it is a combination of both of us are still holdin on... she tries to act all hard but im positive the feelings are still there... the whold break up is a long story and had to do alot with her parents... im not worried about what happened... whats past is past.. im just not sure how to handle it in the future...

 

nikko...be the bigger man and apologize. If she follows suit, persue her. I know how you feel...and i probably know how she felt. it's easy to put emotions out there in an angry manner when you're hurt. You both may be hurt, yet no one will take steps to better anything.

Try talking to her, otherwise, move on.

 

yeah i think i like that advise... i will apoligize to her when i see her next... she's going to make me out to be the bad guy in the deal... regardless of what her party said to get it going... she acts like she doesnt care... well she tries to... its hard to think somebody doesnt care when they look at you across the room 50 times before your meal is over... ill just man up and apoligize and if she wants to be stubborn then ill leave her alone... looks as tho thats what its gonna come to either way...

 

how the can you still love her after all that? drop it completely.

 

well to be honest man thats one of the milder times... there have been worse but it was RIGHT after we broke up... i havent even seen her in about 6 months... and well i guess love is just blind and forgiving man...

 

you will only learn from your mistakes.

 

Run. Run away fast. No good will come of this--you're heading straight for a guest spot on Springer. This doesn't happen when you date women with class.

(Just my .02 of course. )

 

my wife and i divorced, but we're still super-attracted to each other, so now she's my girlfriend. we don't live together but we get along great. how'd we do it? even as we divorced, we made a point to be nice to each other. if emotions started to rise, we both attempted to back off. my advice: don't apologize. don't pursue her. but if you happen to encounter her, be totally nice. chances are, she'll do the same. if something develops, it develops. if it doesn't, it doesn't. don't force it. don't push it. just go with the flow. enjoy whatever comes your way.

 

I'd say take the higher road and be nice. Say hi if you see her on the street so she doesn't feel like the plague. If she starts ripping into you again, say, in a calm gentle manner, something like "Thank you for the good times we had together. Things didn't work out- it's time to move on."