He's an MMA fighter. He'll wreck my set, and I'll probably die.

 

Then I say let someone else's set get wrecked unless you can bang her on the mega-down low.

 

She's not a cat stuck in a tree. You're not a firefighter.

If the child's father is such an ass, why is she still with him? It sounds like he's at least emotionally abusive, so the effects on her will definitely impact your relationship with her, if it goes that route. It's possible she's reached the point where she believes she only deserves to be treated poorly and will seek out relationships that confirm this for her.

Countless people have let her emotions interfere with rational decision-making. I know it's easier for people outside the situation to say this kind of stuff. But that's precisely why you should listen to the advice - they're usually more objective.

 

AGAIN:

Don't contact her unless you 1) enjoy drama and/or 2) are a glutten for punishment

 

Dude, forget this bitch. At most, she probably wants an emotional relationship because it sounds like she doesn't have it with her babies daddy. So you get to hear all her problems, comfort her, and have long platonic talks while he gets to **** her every way imaginable.

Your best bet, just ignore her. If she wants sex, this is a good way to get it. If she wants an emotional relationship which will not be good for you, this is a good way to stay out of it. Win win...

 

omg'z!

please don't reply with "who is this?" ugh, all girls know that's just a sorry ass attempt to +1 them. LAAAAME!

just ignore her, bitches love/hate that. then the next time she inevitably contacts you even after you've ignored her, you'll know that you're definitely calling the shots.

ultimately though... it pretty much sounds like you shouldn't even be burning the brain cells trying to figure out a game plan for this girl, she sounds like a lost cause. plenty more fish in the sea buddy...

 

She never responded back to my "good afternoon" text. She'll probably message me on myspace in three weeks and after I ignore her for a month she'll do this again. And I'll be a tool again and think there's something there.

 

she probably only attempts to contact you when she's fighting with her boyfriend... i've done that before.

 

why? thats all im going to say (not referring to you C Unit)

 

like C unit said, it seems like she's playing with you to take up her time

dude, just leave her alone.