My mom had known her best friend for over 25+ years, we basically know all of their family (her brothers, sisters) and they know all of ours. I've grown up with their kids and anytime someone ask if were related I just say "yes were cousins".

The best friends Brother(Ima refer to him as DB) is a big time talker, like to talk behind your back, likes to show off, think he is better than everyone, he is always trying out do someone and particularly with our family. Ex When my dad bought a new tundra in 04 he waited to buy the new tundra in 05, When I got a 01 s2k he bought his son a 03 s2k 2 weeks later(he totaled it) When we bought a new house he bought a new house a few months later. Now his other son just graduated HS this year 2009 and got him a is350 and thats the big talk with him now. I never knew what he was trying to prove i didn't really care.

Since the is350 a month ago DB just started talking more shit to everyone even to his own older brother quote " Yeah your son has a piece of shit integra I buy my kids whatever they want, the tires on the is350 cost more than that shit blah blah blah" I just couldn't believe what my mom was telling me, seeing as his brother were less fortunate and unable to afford nicer things.

In the past year My family had been hit real hard by the economy, we lost our dry cleaning business, my dad got laid off, we are moving into a smaller home as I type of now because we cant afford to stay in our current home.

Well my friends were at DB's house hanging out with his son's and DB was their too talking and braging about his stuff(I was gonna go their first but had other business).

I called my friend and told him I couldn't make it and hung up. DB asked who called and said my friend said it was me and said the following "Screw him and his dad, they are all talk and can never do shit, their family is retarded, thats why they loss everything and cant afford that house no more, dont ever tell him to come". When really he's the one that always talk but cant back it up. same with his sons

I couldn't believe what I was hearing b/c almost every weekend they would watch football with each other or go to the casino We knew he was a douche bag from the beginning (DB) .I guess had to do b/c my dad was DB boss at the dallas morning news and he was jealous? Anyways he knows the situation that my family is in and why we are struggling right now. So why is he talking shit?

My friends told me this all yesterday and I know they wouldn't make something up like this.

I really want to beat his ass whenever I see him which would probably be at his sisters house(moms bestfriend) but then I dont want a assualt charge b/c hes one of the type to call the cops.

What should I do.

 

Don't waste your time. Not worth it IMO. Karma is a bitch...

It will come back around.

 

 

Sorry to hear about your situation Things will get better

Does DB have a sister you can poke?

 

Yeah, not worth wasting any energy on. Nothing you say or do will likely change anything. Douchebags just are.

 

It's not about how much materialistic shit you can amass. Cherish your loved ones and be thankful of good health. It's hard to not have stuff, but when all is said and done... being a good person is what's going to matter when you leave this earth.

 

move on. you have other more important things to take care (your family) than that DB.

if that don't help just go put some scratches on his car that should make you feel a bit better.

 

 

I couldnt understand half of that but my advice is the same as everyone....move on and just stop talking to them all together.

 

Nice car!