What would you do?!?
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What would you do?!?
A good friend of mine recently broke up with his gf.
She has since decided to take the psycho route. Following him around, trying to hang out with his friends, showing up at his hang-outs and generally just being a borderline stalker.
What would you do?
She has since decided to take the psycho route. Following him around, trying to hang out with his friends, showing up at his hang-outs and generally just being a borderline stalker.
What would you do?
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Gotta go in hard on this one, let her know there is now way for them to get back together. She needs to know in no uncertain terms it's over for good.
She is probably in denial and needs a wake up call before it goes too far.
The sooner she understands this, she can move on with her life.
She is probably in denial and needs a wake up call before it goes too far.
The sooner she understands this, she can move on with her life.
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From: Wheeler Army Airfield, HI
Originally posted by AnDy_PaNdY
Gotta go in hard on this one, let her know there is now way for them to get back together. She needs to know in no uncertain terms it's over for good.
She is probably in denial and needs a wake up call before it goes too far.
The sooner she understands this, she can move on with her life.
Gotta go in hard on this one, let her know there is now way for them to get back together. She needs to know in no uncertain terms it's over for good.
She is probably in denial and needs a wake up call before it goes too far.
The sooner she understands this, she can move on with her life.
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Originally posted by AnDy_PaNdY
Gotta go in hard on this one, let her know there is now way for them to get back together. She needs to know in no uncertain terms it's over for good.
She is probably in denial and needs a wake up call before it goes too far.
The sooner she understands this, she can move on with her life.
Gotta go in hard on this one, let her know there is now way for them to get back together. She needs to know in no uncertain terms it's over for good.
She is probably in denial and needs a wake up call before it goes too far.
The sooner she understands this, she can move on with her life.
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From: This is not my house!
Originally posted by AnDy_PaNdY
Gotta go in hard on this one, let her know there is now way for them to get back together. She needs to know in no uncertain terms it's over for good.
She is probably in denial and needs a wake up call before it goes too far.
The sooner she understands this, she can move on with her life.
Gotta go in hard on this one, let her know there is now way for them to get back together. She needs to know in no uncertain terms it's over for good.
She is probably in denial and needs a wake up call before it goes too far.
The sooner she understands this, she can move on with her life.
Agree, Agree, Agree... be clear on this, very clear.
She's doing this because she thinks there's a chance... all she needs to know is that there is NO chance.
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that happen to me once too....
that ex-gf really bother me so much.
like other said...
hopefully that girls will understand there are no chance and give up and move on her life very soon.
but I will tell you from my experience, that takes a long time and not very easy at all, my ex-gf finally design to give up is because she meet someone else.
that ex-gf really bother me so much.
like other said...
hopefully that girls will understand there are no chance and give up and move on her life very soon.
but I will tell you from my experience, that takes a long time and not very easy at all, my ex-gf finally design to give up is because she meet someone else.
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this happened to me before too, she would throw pebbles at my window. she was a f@#king psycho. i just kept calling her a psycho and told her i couldnt stand her. she got the hint after a while. hah
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Andy Pandy is right.
You've got to appear completely in control though, keep calm and don't stoop to her level (she's looking to provoke a reaction).
Use a firm voice, don't shout. If it gets bad, threaten to get the police involved.
I had a couple of psycho girlfriends - one even smashed up my lounge and front room while I was out (with my new gf) then tried to attack me with a knife !
You've got to appear completely in control though, keep calm and don't stoop to her level (she's looking to provoke a reaction).
Use a firm voice, don't shout. If it gets bad, threaten to get the police involved.
I had a couple of psycho girlfriends - one even smashed up my lounge and front room while I was out (with my new gf) then tried to attack me with a knife !
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I agree with AnDy as well .........
I had an ex that wouldn't accept it was over...... always phoning, always calling round, a bit of a stalker as well..... as soon as she found out that I had another girlfriend,... that was the last I heard from her..... but as AnDy says, she needs to know quickly that there is no chance of getting things back together......
I had an ex that wouldn't accept it was over...... always phoning, always calling round, a bit of a stalker as well..... as soon as she found out that I had another girlfriend,... that was the last I heard from her..... but as AnDy says, she needs to know quickly that there is no chance of getting things back together......