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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 04:59 AM
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^ The nagging and annoyance from women are a given. Most men can deal with it.

It's the trust issue I have zero tolerance for. Once the trust and loyalty becomes questionable...that's it! No second guessing & no second chances.
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 11:05 AM
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Exactly, most women don't mean to nag. It just comes off as nagging because they're trying to be supportive. When a woman tells you to make sure to bring a jacket, or wants you to pull over and ask for directions, they just want to help (generally speaking of course).

But everything in a relationship is based on trust.
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 12:29 PM
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A relationship should be easy and not drama filled... I walked everytime it got to that... My wife and I have been together for 5 yrs now and we have no issues....
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted by thebig33tuna,Jun 24 2009, 05:56 AM
that line is yours to put wherever you choose. no one else can make that call for you...
QFT
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 10:53 PM
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The moment she starts slapping you with used tampons is time to go.
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 11:18 PM
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I wanna hear some women's side on this.

I agree, even though it may seem tough to leave at first, just have to think about the reason you're leaving in the first place. One thing I really hate is how girls take you on guilt trips, always got to play mind games argh!!
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Old Jun 26, 2009 | 06:43 AM
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Originally Posted by dat boi,Jun 25 2009, 11:18 PM
I wanna hear some women's side on this.

I agree, even though it may seem tough to leave at first, just have to think about the reason you're leaving in the first place. One thing I really hate is how girls take you on guilt trips, always got to play mind games argh!!
If they're not working out and you're not happy to be with them any more, it's time to move on.


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Old Jun 26, 2009 | 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted by EVAN&MONICA,Jun 26 2009, 06:43 AM
If they're not working out and you're not happy to be with them any more, it's time to move on.


Monica
So what's so hard about that?

It seems like I find the ones who can't stick to their words and move on (or let me move on) or be with me.
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Old Jun 26, 2009 | 10:00 AM
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Oh yea, the guilt trips, suddenly everything becomes your fault for the break up.
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Old Jun 26, 2009 | 11:51 AM
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Alright... coming from a woman...

I think everyone has their limits. It's up to you to draw the line. How much crap are you willing to put up with? A relationship should be built on trust, and compromise. If you can't trust your significant other, then why the hell are you with them? If you can't give in once in a while, or fight for what's really important, then WHY?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years, and we have NO drama. Why? Because we trust each other, and we compromise! I love the person he is, if I had to work at being with him
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