"Why I Date Asian Women"
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mYuuki, I like your online flirting! But let me tell you something.
From what I know of the Gay Community, which in Toronto is estimated at least several hundred thousand, the bi's have the lowest standing in that community for a number of reasons.
The way it was explained to me was this:
1) Most Bi's tend to be very messed up people that can't be trusted
2) They sit on the sexual and often political fence and are highly likely to play both sides against the middle to their own short term advantage for highly selfish reasons
3) They do not fit in well nor trusted with either the Gays or the Lesbians and are usually accepted by neither groups unless the accepting individual is either reckless or irresponsible.
4) Most Bi's that are wise and astute keep their sexual orientation to themselves, only revealing the status in safe situations.
5) On the positive side, Xavier Hollander said in her book "Call Me Madame" that a person has not truly explored their sexuality without at least trying both sexes. I'm not sure if I agree with that and no I am not bi-curious.
I can only wonder why you are outing yourself on this board, unless you are part of some social trend that I am unaware of.
From what I know of the Gay Community, which in Toronto is estimated at least several hundred thousand, the bi's have the lowest standing in that community for a number of reasons.
The way it was explained to me was this:
1) Most Bi's tend to be very messed up people that can't be trusted
2) They sit on the sexual and often political fence and are highly likely to play both sides against the middle to their own short term advantage for highly selfish reasons
3) They do not fit in well nor trusted with either the Gays or the Lesbians and are usually accepted by neither groups unless the accepting individual is either reckless or irresponsible.
4) Most Bi's that are wise and astute keep their sexual orientation to themselves, only revealing the status in safe situations.
5) On the positive side, Xavier Hollander said in her book "Call Me Madame" that a person has not truly explored their sexuality without at least trying both sexes. I'm not sure if I agree with that and no I am not bi-curious.
I can only wonder why you are outing yourself on this board, unless you are part of some social trend that I am unaware of.
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Originally posted by shingles
I see the term 'banana' has the same meaning in Cananda.
I see the term 'banana' has the same meaning in Cananda.
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Originally posted by AusS2000
In Aus too. It was explained to me by a very cute Asian girl on Saturday night. Do you use the opposite term 'Egg' as well?
In Aus too. It was explained to me by a very cute Asian girl on Saturday night. Do you use the opposite term 'Egg' as well?
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Originally posted by AusS2000
In Aus too. It was explained to me by a very cute Asian girl on Saturday night. Do you use the opposite term 'Egg' as well?
In Aus too. It was explained to me by a very cute Asian girl on Saturday night. Do you use the opposite term 'Egg' as well?
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huh, how can u be white on the outside and yellow on the inside? i'm confused!!!
i'm an abc (Australian Born Chinese or it could be also known as American Born Chinese) i don't know if u use that term as well and yes i'm a banana mate. can speak cantonese but can't read shit or write shit, oh but i sure can talk shit
i'm an abc (Australian Born Chinese or it could be also known as American Born Chinese) i don't know if u use that term as well and yes i'm a banana mate. can speak cantonese but can't read shit or write shit, oh but i sure can talk shit