"Pay It Forward"
At my weekly Mens Group meeting this morning (we've been meeting for ~10 years), one of the guys passed out an envelope to each of the other 10 men. There was a $50 bill in each envelop....not a lot of $$ but not chicken feed either.
"Jack" asked each of us to use this 'found money' however we wished: keep it, give it to someone less fortunate ($50, 5 ten spots, whatever), buy a 'toy for tot', etc.
It turns out that Jack had read about this idea: extend a kindness to someone (often a stranger) and ask them to 'pass it on' in some fashion....suggesting that the recipient do the same
There was not a lot of discussion about this....just that Jack asked everyone to come back next Saturday and report on what they had decided to DO with the 'found' money.
I went home and Googled 'Pay It Forward' and found that there is an entire movement around this concept....initiated in a book in 2000. In fact, there is apparently a reference to it in the book: The Tipping Point. Imagine my surprise when I discovered that there's a non-profit right here in Philly that is boosting this idea.
What would YOU do with this $50 of found money
Serious replies are most appreciated, but self-indulgent ones are OK too.
"Jack" asked each of us to use this 'found money' however we wished: keep it, give it to someone less fortunate ($50, 5 ten spots, whatever), buy a 'toy for tot', etc.
It turns out that Jack had read about this idea: extend a kindness to someone (often a stranger) and ask them to 'pass it on' in some fashion....suggesting that the recipient do the same
There was not a lot of discussion about this....just that Jack asked everyone to come back next Saturday and report on what they had decided to DO with the 'found' money. I went home and Googled 'Pay It Forward' and found that there is an entire movement around this concept....initiated in a book in 2000. In fact, there is apparently a reference to it in the book: The Tipping Point. Imagine my surprise when I discovered that there's a non-profit right here in Philly that is boosting this idea.
What would YOU do with this $50 of found money
Serious replies are most appreciated, but self-indulgent ones are OK too.
I'd probably give it to the coalition for the homeless here in Rosslyn, to do with as they see fit. I give to other charities, but haven't done anything for this one yet. I see several homeless people on my way to and from the subway each day. They each have their spots staked out.
EDIT: I took out part of my original answer, since I was passing judgment on the idea and decided that wasn't appropriate in this thread.
EDIT: I took out part of my original answer, since I was passing judgment on the idea and decided that wasn't appropriate in this thread.
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I don't think I like this whole thing. What I do, or anyone does with money is a very personal thing. If I want to give or not give to charity, I'll use my own money and the only person, aside from myself that I care to answer to is my wife.
I think I'd give him back the money with a note telling him to spend it anyway he pleases and to leave me out of this.
This whole concept seems a bit like reality TV.
I think I'd give him back the money with a note telling him to spend it anyway he pleases and to leave me out of this.
This whole concept seems a bit like reality TV.
Originally Posted by ralper,Dec 10 2006, 08:32 AM
I don't think I like this whole thing. What I do, or anyone does with money is a very personal thing. If I want to give or not give to charity, I'll use my own money and the only person, aside from myself that I care to answer to is my wife.
I wouldn't want to be someone's humanity experiment. I really don't care what they call it. Now, if that person simply gave everyone $50.00 and said to spend it anyway you like, that would have been different. It sounds a lot like what Winfrey did couple of months ago.
^ Well, since you have reinforced my ealier comment which I edited out, I will say that I am not at all comfortable with the concept. I think it's presumptuous to assume anyone wants to participate. I might have given the money back myself.











