I just got finished listening to a tape called Coping With Loss while I was working out. It's very encouraging to hear that I am going through this by the letter. It's refreshing to hear them say that pain and a sense of loss is HEALTHY and is not to be buried, lest you carry it for life. It cannot be rushed. The pain, anger and frustration are all part of healing. It's a very cool tape. I feel good. If anyone wants to borrow it anonymously, send me a PM and I'd be happy to share it.

Signed,

Dr. Ohio

P.S. I know this may disappoint the "move on" generation. In time...

 

Only YOU can live your life!

 

[tapping my foot and shaking my finger] -- what do I keep telling you???!??!??!? You're hot dude, and of course you're doing it right -- you wouldn't do it any other way. That's your style, OR [a bit of a perfectionist, perhaps, but when you've got it, you've got it]