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Originally Posted by ncsu-tc' date='Jan 11 2009, 08:19 PM
Why are most of the S2000's in Oregon / SW Washington Silver?
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Originally Posted by INTJ' date='Jan 12 2009, 09:19 AM
Why aren't I being stalked (by the people I wanted to be stalked by)?
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I have what would you do scenario.
Say you were dating a coworker (I know I know bad idea. Skewer me for that later) and it didn't work out. You dropped her for being "unclassy" and allowing a fellow coworker to try to come between yall.
Later she asks for a second chance and you being the forgiving person you are, give it. However, you come to find out she was seeing previously mentioned coworker behind your back during this time. She drops him as soon as you find out, but realizing she is a unrepentant liar, you promptly drop her out of your life and move on. He is crushed, but what do you care? She later hooks back up with him, seeing you are not coming back.
But we're not done yet-obviously since we haven't moved to the what would you do part
She finds out you have moved on ( aka met someone else) and immediately starts texting you, "I can't believe you've moved on, I miss you, I love you, etc" You get the idea. This goes on for MONTHS. She contacts me from vacationing back home with what went wrong with us, I miss you, I've been dreaming about us, blah blah stuff of that nature. Most recently tries to call you on New Years, however you are with your GF and didn't want any part of that convo. She IS with him that night, but does manage to steal away to try to call you.
Now in the spirit of turnabout is always fair play, do you show coworker that tried to come between y'all (and eventually "succeeded") the texts she's been sending you?
Or
Do you do the nice thing and turn the other cheek?
Sorry for the long post. Hope it was an interesting read.
Say you were dating a coworker (I know I know bad idea. Skewer me for that later) and it didn't work out. You dropped her for being "unclassy" and allowing a fellow coworker to try to come between yall.
Later she asks for a second chance and you being the forgiving person you are, give it. However, you come to find out she was seeing previously mentioned coworker behind your back during this time. She drops him as soon as you find out, but realizing she is a unrepentant liar, you promptly drop her out of your life and move on. He is crushed, but what do you care? She later hooks back up with him, seeing you are not coming back.
But we're not done yet-obviously since we haven't moved to the what would you do part
She finds out you have moved on ( aka met someone else) and immediately starts texting you, "I can't believe you've moved on, I miss you, I love you, etc" You get the idea. This goes on for MONTHS. She contacts me from vacationing back home with what went wrong with us, I miss you, I've been dreaming about us, blah blah stuff of that nature. Most recently tries to call you on New Years, however you are with your GF and didn't want any part of that convo. She IS with him that night, but does manage to steal away to try to call you.
Now in the spirit of turnabout is always fair play, do you show coworker that tried to come between y'all (and eventually "succeeded") the texts she's been sending you?
Or
Do you do the nice thing and turn the other cheek?
Sorry for the long post. Hope it was an interesting read.