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From: SJC
Originally Posted by thebig33tuna,Aug 30 2010, 12:13 PM
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any possible way that I could hook up with a single mom, recently divorced, while making it perfectly clear I don't want a relationship.. oh and also not come off as a huge douche?
any possible way that I could hook up with a single mom, recently divorced, while making it perfectly clear I don't want a relationship.. oh and also not come off as a huge douche?
My special little MILFenstein had a trifecta of misses:
1. She has two kids - Now, this wasn't entirely a deal-breaker for me. They were adorable, and very well behaved around me. . . but. . . still. . . kids. . . that's work.
2. She wasn't quite as worldly, nor as absolutely smart, as I am. Once again, it's a kind of work; not a deal-breaker for dating, but a potential deal-breaker for any long-term what-have-you.
3. Her ex was a complete asshole. He was using the time with the kids as leverage against her; just to spite her (despite his frustrations stemming from his own issues).
I sat her down, and explained in very clear terms why I wasn't going to be around long-term. She let me PIIHB that night. . .
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From: SJC
Originally Posted by macr88,Aug 30 2010, 12:19 PM
Sweet, well whatever you end up with you're always more than welcome join in whatever's going on.
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Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Aug 30 2010, 10:46 PM
Thanks mang. I do miss the group - and you've clearly forged a batch of serious drivers. Way classier than when I left. . .
and then there's people like Casey in the stock yellow S that just seem to have natural driving talent. Can't wait to him at a track day or auto x.
When you get your car you have to join us, it's a ton of time for a few minutes of driving but it's still fun. Plus you get to romp on your car in a safe place.
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Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Aug 31 2010, 12:44 AM
Speaking from experience, you have to go in finding a very big flaw, or several big flaws. . .
My special little MILFenstein had a trifecta of misses:
1. She has two kids - Now, this wasn't entirely a deal-breaker for me. They were adorable, and very well behaved around me. . . but. . . still. . . kids. . . that's work.
2. She wasn't quite as worldly, nor as absolutely smart, as I am. Once again, it's a kind of work; not a deal-breaker for dating, but a potential deal-breaker for any long-term what-have-you.
3. Her ex was a complete asshole. He was using the time with the kids as leverage against her; just to spite her (despite his frustrations stemming from his own issues).
I sat her down, and explained in very clear terms why I wasn't going to be around long-term. She let me PIIHB that night. . .
My special little MILFenstein had a trifecta of misses:
1. She has two kids - Now, this wasn't entirely a deal-breaker for me. They were adorable, and very well behaved around me. . . but. . . still. . . kids. . . that's work.
2. She wasn't quite as worldly, nor as absolutely smart, as I am. Once again, it's a kind of work; not a deal-breaker for dating, but a potential deal-breaker for any long-term what-have-you.
3. Her ex was a complete asshole. He was using the time with the kids as leverage against her; just to spite her (despite his frustrations stemming from his own issues).
I sat her down, and explained in very clear terms why I wasn't going to be around long-term. She let me PIIHB that night. . .
1. be honest
2. PIIHB
3. ???
4. Profit!
thanks
as in SANTANA 
who's he pitchin 4? 
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Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Aug 30 2010, 09:44 PM
Speaking from experience, you have to go in finding a very big flaw, or several big flaws. . .
My special little MILFenstein had a trifecta of misses:
1. She has two kids - Now, this wasn't entirely a deal-breaker for me. They were adorable, and very well behaved around me. . . but. . . still. . . kids. . . that's work.
2. She wasn't quite as worldly, nor as absolutely smart, as I am. Once again, it's a kind of work; not a deal-breaker for dating, but a potential deal-breaker for any long-term what-have-you.
3. Her ex was a complete asshole. He was using the time with the kids as leverage against her; just to spite her (despite his frustrations stemming from his own issues).
I sat her down, and explained in very clear terms why I wasn't going to be around long-term. She let me PIIHB that night. . .
My special little MILFenstein had a trifecta of misses:
1. She has two kids - Now, this wasn't entirely a deal-breaker for me. They were adorable, and very well behaved around me. . . but. . . still. . . kids. . . that's work.
2. She wasn't quite as worldly, nor as absolutely smart, as I am. Once again, it's a kind of work; not a deal-breaker for dating, but a potential deal-breaker for any long-term what-have-you.
3. Her ex was a complete asshole. He was using the time with the kids as leverage against her; just to spite her (despite his frustrations stemming from his own issues).
I sat her down, and explained in very clear terms why I wasn't going to be around long-term. She let me PIIHB that night. . .
Look for flaws..to use for an evacuation route?
2 and 3 are fatal flaws, so why spend more time than needed?
4 she just wants a bang, why discussing long-term anything?
