ya gotta look up..

 

Wicky-
Change is inevitible. You well know you're healthy. You're also healthy for walking away from this. She'll only get better when/if she chooses too. You can support and love her, but as you know, the marriage has flown the coop.

She was the right one for you then. Then change came. Change that was out of your control, occurred. Now, there's the possibility of someone (and something) right for the Wicky you are now. You're changed, and that's not only 'ok,' but heck, you might be a better (wiser) person out of this moment of extreme pain.

You're doing the right thing, and of course, you've got the support of the s.

 

definitely no shame in that wick.... i wish you the best of luck bud....

 

Sorry to call her out publicly wick. I wasn't trying to open sore wounds...I was hoping discussing it would be cathartic for you. As I have told you before ..continue being the better person. Good karma is bound to smack you on the lips sooner than later!

 

thanks all. I definitely feel happy with myself, that is a very satisfying feeling. I'm sad for her. She's a wreck right now. And I'm tired of the anger and abuse. Some women out there aren't meanies I know

8D - you're right. I'm trying to find some peace in accepting all that.

mikey - you're not opening wounds, everytime I have to speak to her they open up. What's funny (not haha) is everytime I talk to her she is the meanest person, calling me an asshole because I want to know what the hell is going, I told about that shit, I think I posted it somewhere. Go fork myself, because I want to know why my marriage is in the shitter. And then I get a call the other day.... so what's up with xyz she asks. Oh, I have an appointment later in the week, I'll know then.... okay (pause, wait wait) so I say, oookkaaayyyy..... (wait wait wait) .... then she says okay, and reluctantly says bye. Honestly, I know its a pregnant pause, where it's I want to say more, but all the bad blood stops it up. And I just want to get off the phone because I know if I open that door it's going to be fork you fork off go shit in your hat (she stole that one from her mom, not even original - I mean, at least I can claim shit-eating bitch ) etc etc. The outrageous anger from her is crazy. It's so out of proportion. But it's classic. I know I talked to you about mikey, already, but it's the classic "I feel so bad for being so shitty, that I'm going to give you the anger I deserve instead of facing that anger myself." She really just can't look at herself and go "Man, I really forked up and have beent he worlds biggest jerk, to so many people that care..." she'd rather throw us all away that to see herself as the shit she is.

I might be repeating myself. I guess that's why its a rant.

thanks for listening s seriously. I can't wait til all this is poop is out of me, and I have nothing but and to give again....

 

I don't know if I explained that well. She was the one on the phone sitting like she had more to say. I was just thinking to myself, when is the name calling going to start? House on fire, get out !!!

 

Keep the faith wick!

 

In Yourself that should have said ^

 

It's cool

 

Your rant just solidified my opinion on cause and effect here by the way.