so what do you do when you dont know what to do or how you feel or whats going on?!?!?

what to do!?!?

 

drink usually solves my problems...at least until the next day... then repeat again...and again..and again...

seriously though..i usually talk to my friends. they usually are able to decipher what i'm feeling and give me a 3rd person perspective on things.

 

post on the corner about the situation and get some really screwed up advice.

 

and most likey forget about the situation so all is well at the end

 

i found my boyfriend at his ex girlfriends house last night....what do i do? thats the short story

 

well he is now my ex boyfriend

 

how'd you "find" him at his ex's house? egg his car, and her's and call it a day

 

did you at least ask him what he was doing there? my ex happens to be my friends cousin, and a place where we all hang out.
i wouldn't necessarily jump to conclusions... unless you have not received any valid explanation....
then....that's another issue altogether.

 

well considering that he swears up and down they dont associate anymore and havent, then he dissapears all day and is supposta be at his grandparents house, i had a gut feeling he was there, and before we started dating he gave me his old address (they used to live together) so i typed it into mapquest and took a nice little drive over there and sure enough he and his brother were there...i didnt obtain the info by any sneaky means hes the one who gave me the addy in the first place
he looked me dead in the eyes and told me that they werent speaking anymore this was a WHILE ago..cause i found a couple emails to her in his email, he had given me his password priior to this so again nothing sneaky on my part, he checked his mail at my house then i saw them then he said i dunno what trhey are when he left i looked at them and it was how muich he loves her and wants her back ect..and he says he has no idea where they came from and doesnt remmeber writing them....

for the last couple weeks he has been sayig he doesnt know if he loves me so we broke up then not last niught but the night before he came over and was like i relaized that i want to be with you and i love you so much ect.....

then last night he was ther enad he wouldnt answr my calls i didnt speak to him once yesterday.....he dissapeared like this once before and said hr was on the phone with her all night.....which now i said before i knew he was there but i let it go.....and he promised nevver to dissapear again like this and wel;ll i havent heard from him

i know he knows that he was there cause the only way that i could see his car was to pull in the drive way (didnt haev the S) i had my friend drive adn sure enough it was him and they were all looking out the window....so who knows

 

holy hell that was long