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well.... hmmm.. you sound like you've seen a ton of red flags from early on in your relationship. i think you still need to figure out exactly what YOU want from the relationship... all you've posted is how he does this and he did that.... HE is only 1/2 the relationship..what about what YOU want? maybe you care for him enough that you can move past that and work on the relationship...he wasn't there by himself, so you can assume that it wasn't totally bad. (well, sorta). you said his brother was with him, right? did you ask his brother what they were doing last night? (i don't know if you are friends with the brother).
personally, i think you're right..it does sound like he's sneaking around too much to really develop some sort of trust. also sounds like you had a gut feeling about this... womens intuition usually is right. (at least everytime i've seen it)
good luck... sounds like you have some wounds to heal
personally, i think you're right..it does sound like he's sneaking around too much to really develop some sort of trust. also sounds like you had a gut feeling about this... womens intuition usually is right. (at least everytime i've seen it)
good luck... sounds like you have some wounds to heal
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Originally posted by Mocky57
well.... hmmm.. you sound like you've seen a ton of red flags from early on in your relationship. i think you still need to figure out exactly what YOU want from the relationship... all you've posted is how he does this and he did that.... HE is only 1/2 the relationship..what about what YOU want? maybe you care for him enough that you can move past that and work on the relationship...he wasn't there by himself, so you can assume that it wasn't totally bad. (well, sorta). you said his brother was with him, right? did you ask his brother what they were doing last night? (i don't know if you are friends with the brother).
personally, i think you're right..it does sound like he's sneaking around too much to really develop some sort of trust. also sounds like you had a gut feeling about this... womens intuition usually is right. (at least everytime i've seen it)
good luck... sounds like you have some wounds to heal
well.... hmmm.. you sound like you've seen a ton of red flags from early on in your relationship. i think you still need to figure out exactly what YOU want from the relationship... all you've posted is how he does this and he did that.... HE is only 1/2 the relationship..what about what YOU want? maybe you care for him enough that you can move past that and work on the relationship...he wasn't there by himself, so you can assume that it wasn't totally bad. (well, sorta). you said his brother was with him, right? did you ask his brother what they were doing last night? (i don't know if you are friends with the brother).
personally, i think you're right..it does sound like he's sneaking around too much to really develop some sort of trust. also sounds like you had a gut feeling about this... womens intuition usually is right. (at least everytime i've seen it)
good luck... sounds like you have some wounds to heal
well said Mocky...
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i spoke to his brother after i saw his car there, his bro was on his way over to her house, he is friends with her cousin....
i thought that we both wanted the same outta the relationship we had put a deposit on an appartment and had future plans, we were on teh same page...wellk obviosly not..nothing adds up nothing at all i am baffled.....so are all my friends.....things were really perfect, we went to corner con in vegas and thigns were absolutly great, he came over the other night and was like i realized i do love you and want you in my life i want you back..then this so i dont get it
i thought that we both wanted the same outta the relationship we had put a deposit on an appartment and had future plans, we were on teh same page...wellk obviosly not..nothing adds up nothing at all i am baffled.....so are all my friends.....things were really perfect, we went to corner con in vegas and thigns were absolutly great, he came over the other night and was like i realized i do love you and want you in my life i want you back..then this so i dont get it