So there was this incredibly beautiful/attractive girl (let's call her A) I've wanted for this past year. She only thinks of me as a friend and have told me so repeatedly.
We have a mutual friend (let's call her B), who I've just found out has wanted to be with me for a long time. We spent time together this past weekend. It was wonderful.
So of course the attractive girl "A" calls me up on Saturday and says she has developed feelings for me now and that she wants to spend time with me. When "B" found out about "A" she understandably became upset and hurt. She won't talk to me now unless I break off all communications with "A".
What "A" told me has been a dream come true for me so it'd be hard to not be with her.
I value "B" as a friend very much and don't want to see her hurt and don't want to her to hate me.

I just don't know what to do.
Sigh....




(Just want a sympathetic ear. I have to work this problem out on my own)

 

A+B= if (A)/you/ = with B then more power to you

 

So no chance of a threesome for a real treat?

Otherwise I'd say B, as A is likely jealous as hell of what you have with B and is maybe kicking herself for being platonic.

 

Well your friendship with "B" will never be the same again because you started something with her. I say try "B" one more time and than go to "A".

 

Random options:

1. Stick with B. Play hard to get with A.

2. If you dump B, A will lose interest in U.

3. Forget A. Pipe dreams never live up to reality.

 

Of course knowing little of how the female mind actually works...I bet they both could be playing you!.... just to see whats up

 

"A" doesn't know that "B" and I spent time together.
"A" and "B" are friends. Although "B" is very upset with "A". She thinks "A" already has her chance and should not be coming back into the picture now.

 

See above post

 

May be true but ever since the first time I met her, I am crazy about her.

 

Swear off women for 3+ years. It won't solve your problems, but it'll put them off for a while...

It's worked for me so far...