I’m not.

 

I’m thinking about taking my S for a blast today.

 

I’m saying one of my coworkers has been missing since 11/11/23 and her estranged husband is the prime suspect.

 

I'm sad to hear this and hoping for the best.

 

I'm saying me too.

 

I’m updating this with sad news. Her body was found in her estranged husband’s storage unit. She was shot and killed.

 

I’m sorry to hear this Dave.

 

I’m sorry too.

 

I’m going off on tangent here. I mentioned that my coworker was found shot & killed and stuffed into a storage unit. What, in your opinion , is an appropriate thing to say to her kids ( one of whom who works with me ) ? And yes , I hate the ‘thoughts and prayers are with you’ - because that is so over used and meaningless.

 

Very difficult situation Dave, sorry to hear of this, you seem like a super nice guy and I am sure you can make them feel at peace as you talk to them.

In my opinion I would suggest that they take solace in remembering the good times that they shared with their mother, it is the best way to cope with the grief. Let them know how much their mother loved them, and do not refer to the father in any sort of way.

I have come to learn that my favourite deceased family members are around me every day, nothing has made me feel better than knowing that. I get a special feeling from time to time that reminds me that they are with me, it is very uplifting. We have a legit spiritual medium who has helped us immensely , but I can't speak about every medium out there. We are believers.