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Originally Posted by 4W MCYL,Aug 29 2007, 06:13 AM
...it definitely is a sticky situation...it's harder when you are still friends...you are watching your every step so as to not hurt the other person...Bill wants to make sure that no matter what, he can still get laid by either... dont burn your bridges!
girlfriend today that doesnt work out... fbuddy tomarrow.
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From: Owings Mills, MD
Originally Posted by bighead,Aug 29 2007, 10:01 AM
from the last page:
so I have a dilemma.
Long story short, my friend Bill invited me and whomever I wanted to bring down to the beach to stay at his boy's beach front mansion. Bill is an idiot and sold his car about 6 months ago so he didn't have a ride. I ask this new girl I'm starting to see if she wants to go. She obviously says yes.
So fast forward to last night, Jen (the new chick) offered to drive instead of me so we can give Bill a ride. That's nice, I called Bill but I guess he was asleep. So he calls me back this morning, saying he might not need the ride and that his roommate (Nick, also my good friend) is going too.
So far so good. Well, the last thing Bill said this morning is Nick's girlfriend Colleen and her friend Michelle are going to be down there too (unrelated, not staying in the house) "Ahh ****" I think to myself. Cause guess who's best friends with both of them? My ex Sara. I check an email from her from last week saying she'll also be down at the beach with them
So now that Nick is going, everyone will be going out on Saturday night. (if Nick didn't go, we most likely wouldn't hang out with those girls).
WTF do I do? Do I email Sara to make sure she's going or not and plan accordingly? Do I tell Jen what's up? I can't afford a hotel room (and doubt any are available) Or do Jen and I do our own thing Saturday night (which is a dick move by not hanging out with Bill)
Nothing ever goes my way.
so I have a dilemma.
Long story short, my friend Bill invited me and whomever I wanted to bring down to the beach to stay at his boy's beach front mansion. Bill is an idiot and sold his car about 6 months ago so he didn't have a ride. I ask this new girl I'm starting to see if she wants to go. She obviously says yes.
So fast forward to last night, Jen (the new chick) offered to drive instead of me so we can give Bill a ride. That's nice, I called Bill but I guess he was asleep. So he calls me back this morning, saying he might not need the ride and that his roommate (Nick, also my good friend) is going too.
So far so good. Well, the last thing Bill said this morning is Nick's girlfriend Colleen and her friend Michelle are going to be down there too (unrelated, not staying in the house) "Ahh ****" I think to myself. Cause guess who's best friends with both of them? My ex Sara. I check an email from her from last week saying she'll also be down at the beach with them
So now that Nick is going, everyone will be going out on Saturday night. (if Nick didn't go, we most likely wouldn't hang out with those girls).
WTF do I do? Do I email Sara to make sure she's going or not and plan accordingly? Do I tell Jen what's up? I can't afford a hotel room (and doubt any are available) Or do Jen and I do our own thing Saturday night (which is a dick move by not hanging out with Bill)
Nothing ever goes my way.
if you are trying to make the ex jealous, go out with them with the new girl on sat night.
if you have feelings for the ex and don't want to ruin things by letting her see you with another girl, too bad, go out anyway since if you bail then your friends will tell your ex "oh Bill is bangin that new girl he's seeing" when she asks where you are.
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From: Owings Mills, MD
Originally Posted by 3312DC,Aug 29 2007, 10:06 AM
Perfect solution.
drop Nick, take Cale. Cale takes Nicks place, hangs out with Colleen, bangs Michelle, and keeps Sara busy while Bill and Jen enjoy the night life with their buddy Bill... (lots of Bills)
drop Nick, take Cale. Cale takes Nicks place, hangs out with Colleen, bangs Michelle, and keeps Sara busy while Bill and Jen enjoy the night life with their buddy Bill... (lots of Bills)
but replace Cale with Evan. And the Evan will hang out (and bang) Colleen, bang Michelle while Sara watches, then bang Sara and Jen, then throw up and pass out on the beach.
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YOU GUYS ALL SUCK!!!
are you serious? confrontation is key... I love it.
its entertainment- go down there, have fun. so what if shes there... Big city, big beach, big bar etc.
little cat fight happens, all the better.
are you serious? confrontation is key... I love it.
its entertainment- go down there, have fun. so what if shes there... Big city, big beach, big bar etc.
little cat fight happens, all the better.
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From: Owings Mills, MD
Originally Posted by 4W MCYL,Aug 29 2007, 10:06 AM
Both actually.
If your breakup was amicable, then, definitely contact Sara.
As far as telling Jen, she is going to know at some point, this might be the time..
My $0.02
If your breakup was amicable, then, definitely contact Sara.
As far as telling Jen, she is going to know at some point, this might be the time..
My $0.02
