So I got this friend who is as close as my brother to me. And i know his girl is cheatin on him. But he loves the f*%# out of her. I cant start a poll. So what would you do. tell him or let him be happy in peace. BTW she is over seas on deployment and we are in port waiting for her to get back.

 

Depending on your relationship with her, you might could sit her down and give her the opportunity to come clean herself. He finds out before she gives him the drip... and you don't have to be the bearer of the bad news. He needs to know either way, though. If she balks, be prepared to talk to him yourself.

 

I would tell him only if you have evidence that proves your case w/o a shadow of a doubt...I wouldn't say ish to her unless you "know" her

 

with what they said. He def has to know.

 

tell him if you are sure.

 

yea, i am mad for sure. i know her but she is overseas. messin with some dude on her boat!

 

I was in the similar situation. I just sat my best friend down and told him what I saw, he then had to interpret it and do as he wished. Either way if you have solid evidence your friend needs to know.

 

....one word..........blackmail...............



Seriously.....your friend needs to know.

 

Most people will reject what you say, and go into denial and in the end maybe even shun you. So tread lightly on this one, unless you have pictures or phone conversations I'd stay out. It will work out in the end and she will get hers, Karma is real.

 

This is a tricky one...I tend to agree that you should tell him what you *know* (not think). But you have to be prepared in case he gets mad at you instead of the gf. Happens fairly often. It could ruin your friendship.