^^intentional relationship sabotage

 

^ She was probably stupid.

 

Rashad has it on the nose for this one. A good friend of mine from years back had his wife cheating on him within a few months of them getting married. She had the timerity to tell his cousin's wife when they came for a visit... as if his cousin wasn't going to tell. It's intentional. They WANT to be found out, but the reasoning is varied... some want the current relationship to end as quickly as possible (big fight), others are mental masochists, some just have no concept of right/wrong.

 

tell her that you know and that she better come straight with your boy. Give her a day or two to tell him and then if she doesnt you should tell him

 

If you go that route, expect her to tell him you made a pass at her, and he shouldn't believe anything you say. Your credibility is shot at that point, you could have video, it would make zero diff.

 

Well this is gonna be my opinion so don't get mad. Depending on how well you "KNOW" the relationship I think you need to mind your own business. They may be in love and have an agreement that it would be ok for her or him to play the field while they are apart. There are alot of couples that like to do three somes and the like in order to keep their relationship intact and "fun". Just because it's not the norm doesn't mean it's wrong or unwanted. You may only see what's on the outside of the relationship and not what goes on behind closed doors. Like I said this is my opinion but hey I like it freaky anyway.

 

Well, I told him last night. He was devistated, but he said thanks. It was the right thing to do. It just sucks seeing your boy so down. Thanks everyone.

 

i feel you did the right thing.

If they did have a freaky relationship like that, then when you do tell, it wouldnt be a problem cuz it wouldnt be a surprise. but maybe thats just the way i think of it ?

Hopefully he can figure things out and move on. Its better now than later.

 

well since we're all telling the truth here...allen I am bangin sandy out da park like barry bonds....and rashad, naila changed her mind b/c she said there was something about chocolate that curry couldn't satisfy.....LMAO

 

stfu. gtfo