So, I am taking this girl I met on Sat out again tomorrow, Tuesday 15th, night and I need some advice. We went out Sat night as a spur of the moment invite since she is new here from Wichita and doesn't really know many people. We met up with some of my friends and just had a great time. She invited me with her yesterday to a friends house of someone she knows to watch some games. We got back to our apt. complex, (lives in the same building) and parted ways. I messaged her about 30 mins later and asked if I could swing by and ask her a question. She invited me over, we sat and talked for about 3 hours and had some great conversation.

I haven't been nervous about a date in God knows how long and I need some advice on where to take her. I am thinking about a little more chill of an evening with the possibility of drinks later on. I want to go to eat somewhere, but I don't want to follow that up with the boring ass movie cliche.

Why the hell am I so nervous!!!???

 

A movie is a horrible idea for a date with someone who you don't know very well. You can't talk and get to know each other. The only real interaction is if you turn it into a make out session, which I personally wouldn't do.

A nice place to eat that is relatively cheap is Macaroni Grill. Very good service and great food.

I don't know what kind of girl she is, but maybe take her over to saddlers and race go karts with her. I dated a girl for a while who loved that. If she's not that kind of girl, maybe bowling or laser tag?

Good luck dude. Let us know how it goes.

Don't let her drive your car. If she ask, say you just installed some new parts and you have to break them in.

 

She used to have an RSX-S and as GSR back in the day. I can't wait for her to drive the S2K! I was thinking Saddlers since they are running a special of 1$ a minute, but right after eating may not be a good idea. lol

 

Weirdo,

You gotta make your self a little less available. Girls love a challenge so you gotta make her think that you're also banging other girls without overtly saying it. Give it a week before you talk to her again and don't make any dates for Friday or Saturday with her yet. Friday or Saturday dates are saved for your #1 and #2 girls. You gotta make her think that you're talking to girls more awesome than her and she's gonna want to take you to bed right away.

It's science.

 

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Lmao, yea I want to see you try that method too haha

 

Ha. Yeah.....Make her think that she's third in line. That's a good way to start it off.

 

I was dating other girls at the same time I met my fiancee and she knew about it simply because she asked me. I don't recommend you telling this girl when and if you're going on dates with other girls but she'll definitely be wondering what you're doing on Friday and Saturday and she's gonna try like heck to get on your guest list.

As for date ideas. Take advantage of the weather and take her to a restaurant that serves good drinks and has a patio. It makes taking her on a weekday an even better idea because you can hang out and have one of those 3 hour conversations without being rushed.

McCormick & Schmick's has a good happy hour.
Cheesecake factory for large servings.
Fogo de Chao if you want to stuff your face.
Houston's has a good Hawaiian steak and excellent service.

If she's attracted to you at all, it's guaranteed that she's not gonna settle for third (even if 1 and 2 don't even exist) but rather she'll be putting extra effort to spend time with you.

 

Are these guys really people you want to ask for dating advice??? haha