Guess its my turn to share one of these with the boys..

Me and the GF of 3 years are officially over... I just couldnt stand her seflish princess ass anymore. Ill spare the details, but here were the 2 major events that said shes not the one.

Had cancer a year ago, and instead of being by my side through it all, she thought it was more important to take care of her needs and feelings of loneliness by going out and partying. She then goes to call me selfish and needs for wanting her to be by my side... I guess I was a dick, was only dying of cancer lol.

Next was her "wants" wants to get married, have kids, get a house etc.... she doesnt even have a job yet! She si graduated with her BS degree but isnt able to work because she didnt send in an app to the state for a license.

Even the fights, I refused to fight or even let them happen because its was always "YOU YOU YOU YOU YOU" comming outta her mouth instead of how to make us stronger.

Sure she could still be here and sure things could be well if im willing to completely forget any of my happiness and risk alimony and a divorce in the future.

So heres what I did: Told her to be a partner and pull her own weight with me, and if and when she can not, talk to me so we can work it together. When we fight lets attack the actual problem instead of each other, and no matter how bad shit gets imhere for better or worse.

She didnt seem to agree with that and went on with the typical whores " YOU YOUYOUYOUYOUYOUYOUYOUYOU" So I told her to GTFO, plain and simple.

She then starts to talk more reasonably, how can we address this, fix this, what are we going to do etc... SO i told her theres nothing that can make me give up on her except blatently ingoring or refusing to work for the team

Come home yesterday and shes gone!

Conclusion? Fuk that, wont be any crying here or wishing I had done anything differently, I have already had her call and text blocked on all lines, email and IM blocked.

She still has my promise ring and the house keys.... if she honestly thinks thats gonna get her in again, shes dead wrong.

Its the way it goes, but Im not puttin up with the shit!

/rant

 

Sounds like you made the right decision.

 

and sorry to hear your fighting or fought cancer I hope that battle is being won!

 

Its like some wisdom parable I once heard

"You dont truly know someone, until you fight them."

So very very true...

Better now than divorce and child support!@

 

Amen, brother.

If they can't be a partner, then they're dead weight.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

 

But why the hell did she keep the ring and keys? Maybe to try and slither back later?

 

i know EXACTLY what you mean, everything was my fault and when i stood up for myself she went run to a lawyer (all i cared about was my boys and my cars) which yea i neglected her, but i tried everything i could think of to keep the fire going between us....well it didn't work

 

Ya, its amazing how selfish a bitch can be and how they always want to look like the victum.

Shes not my problem anymore, and to hell if she things ill be like any desparate chump faggot and wait by the phone for her, wont be happening.

 

What you need to do is post some pics

 

You can bet she is going to try to run back to you when she needs something and the realization hits.

It won't take long...